Sadly I’ve never seen one in real life, I did have the chance once, a friends ex hit on me on Grindr and we went on a date and he made it really obvious that he wanted the date to end that way and my friend said he was HUGE. I was so intrigued but the date was sooooo baaaad! He was a Christian and so overbearing with it and I’m not religious at all! He was just too nice and sweet and it just felt so uncomfortable. I know that sounds mad but I just had to bail