Every day, it amazes me "what common ground" many of us are on in this room! 'Seems like we share in the same concerns, thoughts, worries, etc. from time to time.
The curiosity of how another man is fixed, hung, rigged, equipped, etc. is as natural as breatheing. Men are competitive by nature...so, enough said.
Also, given ALL the variables out there concerning male genitalia---short, medium, long, extra-long length; small, average, large, super-large girth, then-- cut, uncut, curved, bent, crooked, no veins, big veins, at least three different shaped glans(!), regular color, dark color, scarred, unscarred-----whew! Enough already! You get the idea. (And, hey, shucks--- we didin't even get to the testicles...average, small, medium, low-riding, high riding,----well, we don't need to go any further.)
THEN, --there's the aura of... "the mystery of it all" --concealing the whole cabooddle under clothing...NO WONDER men and women are curious about each other!
Strange isn't it?--we don't give a fig about each others' knees, elbows, toes, fingers, etc...just "the goods".
As a society, I look forward to the day (if ever) that we
can get away from labels. I believe men should not feel gay or bi if they "sneak a peak". Again it's natural thing to do. Understand, I don't go out of my way to display the wares necessarily. Sometimes though, through just the course of routine day-to-day life, somebody will get that "quick-see", or--a "hint", of what's under wraps.
No problem as long as the one getting the view makes no effort to do something improper (i.e. making unwelcomed advances). I draw the line there.
It's heartening to realize (after my forty-plus years of agonizing / worrying) about "MY" curiosity of others---that I'm certainly NOT by myself! --It's such a relief.