This is why I like LPSG

[Exbiker]

The purpose of human life is to understand and appreciate the world around us, and each other.

This site often speaks directly to that. There is kindness and humour too, as well as some nice pictures.

Strangely, the fact that it's nominally about one physical aspect of sex isn't really central. What I find here is people being adults, mostly. Sharing experiences, insights, opinions. Challenging a little. Learning from each other. Celebrating diversity. Opening up to new thought.

That's powerful, and always interesting. I try to only spend a few minutes a day doing this - sometimes up to an hour, maybe - but often that's enough to help open up a new front in the strategic progress of my mind's exploration of the world around me...

And to some extent it's about what I can give, as well as what I can get. It may be arrogance, but I hope not - I like to think I do occasionally have some insight too, that can potentially be useful to others... And that's part of how I roll.

So.

Thank you all.

 

[Oxnard]

The purpose of human life is to understand and appreciate the world around us, and each other.

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Purpose and meaning are human creations, so at all times the universe contains exactly as much or as little meaning as you choose to give it.

I think you made a good choice.

People forget that humans are social mammals, and like most social species, out primary survival strategy is each other. Those emotional bonds we form with other people are genuinely important for a large number of reasons.

 

[Oxnard]

Our, not out. Sorry.

 

[Exbiker]

Purpose and meaning are human creations, so at all times the universe contains exactly as much or as little meaning as you choose to give it.

That's true. But at the same time, the meaning-and-purpose generators that we are, the units of consciousness and freedom, are "part of" the universe too.

I suspect you wouldn't argue that vehicles don't move, only the wheels do.

 

[bi_todd]

I have valued the LPSG community for a long time. I joined years ago but fell away for a period when my wife discovered an open browser window. Eventually my love of big penis brought me back. Some of the forum discussions can be repetitious and predictable, but the never-ending flow of hot images merits continued visits.

I have found real wisdom and surprising insight here at times. I've come to appreciate viewpoints and experiences that lie far beyond the realm of my own existence. LPSG also helped me navigate some difficult emotional waters as I came to grips with my own shifting sexuality during midlife crisis.

LPSG relationships can be liberating because of the shield of anonymity provided by the internet. However, without the benefit of face-to-face reality checks, out-sized expectations may result. Unfortunately, we've all experienced regret when some of our favorite contributors disappear (either voluntarily or banned).

LPSG is not perfect. I pay zero attention to the political discussions. The tiresome circumcision topic might as well be classified as a religious debate because of the zealots and their passionate opinions. Mention of marital infidelity is also out because of those waiting to pounce with harsh judgements (odd because LPSG is otherwise so welcoming and tolerant).

I'm glad to see the latest reinvention of the LPSG format because it increases the likelihood of survival for years to come (innovate or die).

 

[Oxnard]

That's true. But at the same time, the meaning-and-purpose generators that we are, the units of consciousness and freedom, are "part of" the universe too.

I suspect you wouldn't argue that vehicles don't move, only the wheels do.

Purpose is whatever you decide it is, and I think you chose well. It shows empathy and good priorities.

 

[Oxnard]

I have valued the LPSG community for a long time. I joined years ago but fell away for a period when my wife discovered an open browser window. Eventually my love of big penis brought me back. Some of the forum discussions can be repetitious and predictable, but the never-ending flow of hot images merits continued visits.

I have found real wisdom and surprising insight here at times. I've come to appreciate viewpoints and experiences that lie far beyond the realm of my own existence. LPSG also helped me navigate some difficult emotional waters as I came to grips with my own shifting sexuality during midlife crisis.

LPSG relationships can be liberating because of the shield of anonymity provided by the internet. However, without the benefit of face-to-face reality checks, out-sized expectations may result. Unfortunately, we've all experienced regret when some of our favorite contributors disappear (either voluntarily or banned).

LPSG is not perfect. I pay zero attention to the political discussions. The tiresome circumcision topic might as well be classified as a religious debate because of the zealots and their passionate opinions. Mention of marital infidelity is also out because of those waiting to pounce with harsh judgements (odd because LPSG is otherwise so welcoming and tolerant).

I'm glad to see the latest reinvention of the LPSG format because it increases the likelihood of survival for years to come (innovate or die).

Infidelity is no big deal as long as it's agreed to (such as with open relationships or swinging). It's not for me, but I won't judge people for that and may even be a little envious of their ability to enjoy that.

However when there is not an agreement, infidelity can do a lot of emotional damage. I want no part of that nor do I want any part of encouraging it.

 

[950483]

I have valued the LPSG community for a long time. I joined years ago but fell away for a period when my wife discovered an open browser window. Eventually my love of big penis brought me back. Some of the forum discussions can be repetitious and predictable, but the never-ending flow of hot images merits continued visits.

I have found real wisdom and surprising insight here at times. I've come to appreciate viewpoints and experiences that lie far beyond the realm of my own existence. LPSG also helped me navigate some difficult emotional waters as I came to grips with my own shifting sexuality during midlife crisis.

LPSG relationships can be liberating because of the shield of anonymity provided by the internet. However, without the benefit of face-to-face reality checks, out-sized expectations may result. Unfortunately, we've all experienced regret when some of our favorite contributors disappear (either voluntarily or banned).

LPSG is not perfect. I pay zero attention to the political discussions. The tiresome circumcision topic might as well be classified as a religious debate because of the zealots and their passionate opinions. Mention of marital infidelity is also out because of those waiting to pounce with harsh judgements (odd because LPSG is otherwise so welcoming and tolerant).

I'm glad to see the latest reinvention of the LPSG format because it increases the likelihood of survival for years to come (innovate or die).

Is it likely that many people think infidelity is a big deal because of HIV? It's not about feelings getting hurt, not for me personally anyway, it's more about taking risks for someone else, and not telling them.

 

[950483]

This is why I like LPSG

 

[Oxnard]

Is it likely that many people think infidelity is a big deal because of HIV? It's not about feelings getting hurt, not for me personally anyway, it's more about taking risks for someone else, and not telling them.

STD is a big deal for me, but the larger issue is not wanting to hurt someone nor be hurt.

 

[wnjcwjkk]

Well, I used to be a lot smaller, I kept growing slowly but surely til I was about 23, but I still had this idea that I am a small guy, for the longest time I was afraid to even show it to anybody.

But, I had this obsession with size, wishing I had a big one, wondering what it feels like. That eventually led me to find this site, which I lurked on for years just for the great big dick porn and photos shared. But I never in a million years considered I was on the larger side of average.

I got a camera phone around age 23, and of course I was curious to see, so I snapped a few pics hard and something about seeing it from the new angle, I was like "Damn, that doesn't really look small at all. Looks maybe even.... Big? No way"

I hadn't measured since I was young and around 5 inches. I didn't notice the growth so I assumed that's where I stayed. But I measured it right around the 7 inch line, and was like "Holy shit!"

I was talking with this chick at the time, sexy little blonde, lived a few hours away so we hadn't hooked up yet, but it seemed likely. I had only been with one girl at this point, a one night thing who told me I was "perfect", but I thought she was being nice cause she was really into me. This new girl was a bit of a freak and had some sexual experience, I was a little intimidated, and contemplating showing her a pic.

I decided to test it out in a safe, anonymous way, first. So, I said fuck it, and posted some pics on here, and awaited feedback. I got some really great compliments, and I figured a site like LPSG was gonna be the place to find a real reaction. It immediately sent my confidence through the roof, it was like I had been granted a Big Penis from my Fairy Godmother. I consider it a blessing to be able to have experienced life and this site through the eyes of someone who feels small and lacking, and through the eyes of someone who feels bigger than average. It makes me appreciate my dick that much more.

So, it gave me the confidence to send the girl a couple pics, and got a great reaction, really hot, and I was fucking her like a champ a week later!

I have so much more sexual confidence now and I attribute a lot of it to the good folks at LPSG. I also found it to be a safe place to share my thoughts, fantasies, etc. that I wouldn't feel comfortable talking about with people who know me. This site has also helped me to realize that size isn't as big of a deal as I thought when I was younger, but it's easier to say that from the perspective of being big, I'll admit.