This is why Men Cheat on you, Ladies...

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Yes because all ladies do this. Just another sweeping generalization from ACY10.

Did it occur to any of you people that maybe she has an actual problem? Health issue, hormonal imbalance, terrible self esteem.....

If poor health was indeed the reason for denying her husband sex, why then share the spreadsheet with the world, rather than telling him the truth, which obviously would be more convincing than the professionally-documented excuses she presented?


 

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Sex every fifteen days? Geez, that doesn't seem unreasonable.

His incessant prodding and pushing seems a little childish though.

25 sex sessions a year is NOT by any means a reason to cheat. People cheat because they have low self esteem.
 

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Hard to judge without knowing the motivations at work. The spreadsheet was a rather odd way to make his point, but it's possible he'd brought it up prior to this, she told him he was full of crap, and he had to document it to verify his feelings and bring the conversation along. On the other hand, if he did it out of the blue just to bitch about not getting laid, then it was a rather douchetastic move.

When I was injured in a car accident, I was instructed by my lawyer to keep a log and make entries every day on how I feel, what the weather was like, etc. It was to be entered as evidence in the court case. It's possible he was planning for what was coming down the road.
 

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Good points.

I could bet pretty good money that the couples with the best communication tend to have the best sex, and the best marriages.

But damn, walk out there, and nobody communicates anymore. (if you don't count texting)
 

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Seems she explained quite a bit of why she felt the way she had during those times. A busy life can do that to you.
 

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3 times in a six week period, he's damn lucky if you ask me. Hell, I could compose pretty much the same list, add allergy or back pain to the wife's excuse list though.
 

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Hard to judge without knowing the motivations at work. The spreadsheet was a rather odd way to make his point, but it's possible he'd brought it up prior to this, she told him he was full of crap, and he had to document it to verify his feelings and bring the conversation along. On the other hand, if he did it out of the blue just to bitch about not getting laid, then it was a rather douchetastic move.

The wife's posting it on the internet was a dick move either way. Even if the husband was just being an asshole, there was absolutely nothing to be gained from making it a public spectacle.

These guys need some counseling, pronto.

I agree. It's says a lot that the wife posted this for the world to see instead of addressing the man she took vows to honor and love. He is clearly desperate for love and affection. Sorry for judging but she sounds like a bitch! Fuck your damn husband and get off the internets! Instead of wasting time humiliating him, get the poor man off! If he had to result to excel to point out she is lazy with the P, she needs to self reflect and figure out what she can do to improve this situation.

A good male friend told me something I share with my female friends. If your man can't win playing fair, eventually he will cheat!
 

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Yes because all ladies do this. Just another sweeping generalization from ACY10.

Did it occur to any of you people that maybe she has an actual problem? Health issue, hormonal imbalance, terrible self esteem.....

If she does. It's her responsibly to heal it to restore happiness to herself and her house. Doing nothing is neglect for herself and her husband. This excel is a warning. It sounds kinda desperate. I bet he has said something previously and was ignored.
 

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I'm sorry when you are in a relationship or married sex is part of the deal. It is an obligation to the other person that you respect and care for their needs sexually. If it's not the their the person's going to cheat. I think women forget that and they use sex as a weapon, which honestly is not just cruel, but it is going to land them getting cheated on. Sex is not a bargaining chip, nor is it something that you can withhold because maybe your man isn't as good in bed as you would like. If you don't like the way your man fucks you tell him ways in which he can improve. If it can't be improved then you need to move on. But staying in a relationship and withholding sex for any reason (in gay or straight couples) is absolutely wrong an all levels.
 

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I'm sorry when you are in a relationship or married sex is part of the deal. It is an obligation to the other person that you respect and care for their needs sexually. If it's not the their the person's going to cheat. I think women forget that and they use sex as a weapon, which honestly is not just cruel, but it is going to land them getting cheated on. Sex is not a bargaining chip, nor is it something that you can withhold because maybe your man isn't as good in bed as you would like. If you don't like the way your man fucks you tell him ways in which he can improve. If it can't be improved then you need to move on. But staying in a relationship and withholding sex for any reason (in gay or straight couples) is absolutely wrong an all levels.

You are never obligated to have sex with anyone. No one has a right to your body. And it is definitely NOT an excuse for cheating. Not happy in the marriage? Get out of it.