I feel abit stupid asking for advice, but I struggle with what to do. I know this lad, vaguely, we've spoken on a few occasions. He's really confident, typical of a straight lad. He's had girlfriends in the past but is currently single and says to everyone he is straight. But at my friends party not so long ago, he asked me to suck him off. I'm not out so I said no, thinking he was typically being a straight boy joking on. But since, I heard rumours he could be partial to men aswell, I think about him all the time. I want to try and see if he may be up for it. But im scared to ask, in case he tells people which would ruin my life at the moment. I need a subtle way of asking him, or just general advice, help?