Or both.......What surprises do you play with your partner. Sometimes I place things upon the bed, things like...Flowers, voucher for the flicks, vibrator, handcuffs or rope, rubber glove, lube etc. Cause at times we are not mind readers, sometimes we do not know what mood our love's might be in. I find it fun to watch facial expressions and or body language on which ones may be chosen. So, what little things do you reserve for your partner in play?