big breasts on a fit, curved body and you're all woman to a lot of men. bigger breasts are feminine, you say you crave to have them, yet you choose an appearance with masculine qualities. short hair. unshaven body. i'm not critical of those choices. your face is truly striking. i wonder if you had longer hair and a smooth body if i couldn't keep my eyes off you. i would argue that men will notice your small chest more if the rest of you takes their eyes away. regardless of what i think, you seem like a very sexual person and probably a hot lover.
this site is starting to give me a complex
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Sexyness comes from attitude. If you chose to be, you will be. There are plenty of big breasted women with low self esteem.
I was at a Costco today. This woman was walking around with a skirt so short you could just about see the bottom of her tushy when she walked. She must have been wearing a thong or nothing at all. Well, she had just about every guy's attention, them following her around bumping elbows at each other, making comments among themselves. She was not even that attractive. You are prettier then her. She was on the chunky side where she is just about to hit the point of, "she should not be wearing that", but it was enough for the guys that like thicker girls. Her breasts were bigger than yours, but not memorable. Every guy was looking at her ass. She had long legs with some wedge heels.
The point being, she had the whole freakn' store in a frenzy. Why, because of her attitude. She flaunted it, and I guess got the attention she was looking for. I dont even remember her face that well, but it wasnt all that.
Guys are not only into breasts. Not one said "look at her tits".
I was at a Costco today. This woman was walking around with a skirt so short you could just about see the bottom of her tushy when she walked. She must have been wearing a thong or nothing at all. Well, she had just about every guy's attention, them following her around bumping elbows at each other, making comments among themselves. She was not even that attractive. You are prettier then her. She was on the chunky side where she is just about to hit the point of, "she should not be wearing that", but it was enough for the guys that like thicker girls. Her breasts were bigger than yours, but not memorable. Every guy was looking at her ass. She had long legs with some wedge heels.
The point being, she had the whole freakn' store in a frenzy. Why, because of her attitude. She flaunted it, and I guess got the attention she was looking for. I dont even remember her face that well, but it wasnt all that.
Guys are not only into breasts. Not one said "look at her tits".
Like yourself, I won't be winning any wet t-shirt contests...but who cares! If my man is focusing on my flat chest rather than my other INCREDIBLE assets and skills, then its his loss.
That said, I think all of us women have a complex at some point or another whether its "my breasts are too small", "my nose is crooked", or my latest - "how many FRICKEN crunches till I see results". But I think we are our own worst critics.
That said, I think all of us women have a complex at some point or another whether its "my breasts are too small", "my nose is crooked", or my latest - "how many FRICKEN crunches till I see results". But I think we are our own worst critics.
I have said it before in other threads and I will say it again: Small tits are a HUGE turn-on. The saying that the perfect breast fits in a champagne glass is true.
Whjat more can I say? had a look at your gallery, and your body is hot, tits are perfect. Thatk youy for sharing your pics.
Whjat more can I say? had a look at your gallery, and your body is hot, tits are perfect. Thatk youy for sharing your pics.
I'm so jealous! I haven't been able to go with out a bra since 1974, when I went from bumps to a 36c over the course of the summer. Boys in 9th grade would sneeze walking down the hall and ask me if I had a kleenex. I didn't get it (girlfriend had to clue me in). By the end of high school I was wearing a 38DDD and they sagged down like granny boobs. I used to sit at my desk and let my boobs rest on the desktop to take the strain off my back. In 1983 I had a reduction, down to a 36c. It was so nice. I came home from the hospital and looked in the mirror for the first time - and was like OMG! I've got big hips! My boyfriend about split a gut laughing.
Since then I've gained weight, a lot of weight. And an unfair portion has settled up front - 44DD. It can be fun, flashing a little cleavage now and then, teasing and such but it isn't what it's cracked up to be. The men that go after the women with the really big boobs... well, let's just say that they don't always come from the top of the tree. I'll take a leg man any day over a boob man.
You have an amazing, lovely, healthy body. But, you are human and we all tend to find fault with ourselves. I do it most when I feel that some aspect of my life is out of control. I can't help but feel that there is more than this going on. Perhaps it might be helpful to talk with someone neutral about it, like a counselor.
Since then I've gained weight, a lot of weight. And an unfair portion has settled up front - 44DD. It can be fun, flashing a little cleavage now and then, teasing and such but it isn't what it's cracked up to be. The men that go after the women with the really big boobs... well, let's just say that they don't always come from the top of the tree. I'll take a leg man any day over a boob man.
You have an amazing, lovely, healthy body. But, you are human and we all tend to find fault with ourselves. I do it most when I feel that some aspect of my life is out of control. I can't help but feel that there is more than this going on. Perhaps it might be helpful to talk with someone neutral about it, like a counselor.
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Muff, ass, face, neck, back, stomach, legs, tits. If I had to list prefernces, which when in an individual situation are meaningless anyway, because it becomes subjective to the person, the bits are only prefered in an objectified manner.
Relationships are a subjective experience and therefore IMO far more important than a culturally driven sexist objectification of either sex.
Relationships are a subjective experience and therefore IMO far more important than a culturally driven sexist objectification of either sex.
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I think almost enough has been said, except my observation that America seems more breast-size obsessed than other parts of the world. Beyond that, the majority of women in my country are A-cap to B-cup sized, and almost every girl I had the pleasure of being intimate with was in this size range, with one exception. I prefer smaller breasts because they hold their shape better, they're nice to look at, and they're just as much fun to play with.
If it makes you feel any better, I dont care about breast size. I have dated woman of all sizes and some of the sexyist had small breasts. Big breast dose not a woman make. lol:biggrin1: Best to you!
First off, you do have great tits. That said, let me see if I can explain this as a guy.
Yes, we look at big boobs. Yes, we daydream about what it's like to play with them. But for the most part, it's just the novelty of it moreso than a matter of actual attraction (or even usefulness, for that matter). Sure, some guys are really into big breasts, but it's not by any means an inherent trait of the gender. On the whole, I've always been more attracted to the small-chested, athletic types, and plenty of other guys are, too. It's always been something of a joke between a freind of mine from high school and me how he's such a "boob guy" and I don't even notice a woman's chest half the time. My wife's a big B and that's plenty for me. There was one female friend of mine who had the typical runner's build and often talked about getting implants, and every time she brought it up, I told her to absolutely not do it because she looked great as she was.
Of couse, none of that means I don't find, say, Mad Rouge's bra bombs awfully nice to look at. She's a sexy woman, they're great, and they're part of her look. But so are you and yours. Variety is a wonderful thing.
Think of it this way...just because you might enjoy looking at tall, tanned, toned, muscular guys with 6-pack abs, rock-hard biceps, and big ol' pecs, would you really think you were missing out on something significant if your bf didn't have all that?
Yes, we look at big boobs. Yes, we daydream about what it's like to play with them. But for the most part, it's just the novelty of it moreso than a matter of actual attraction (or even usefulness, for that matter). Sure, some guys are really into big breasts, but it's not by any means an inherent trait of the gender. On the whole, I've always been more attracted to the small-chested, athletic types, and plenty of other guys are, too. It's always been something of a joke between a freind of mine from high school and me how he's such a "boob guy" and I don't even notice a woman's chest half the time. My wife's a big B and that's plenty for me. There was one female friend of mine who had the typical runner's build and often talked about getting implants, and every time she brought it up, I told her to absolutely not do it because she looked great as she was.
Of couse, none of that means I don't find, say, Mad Rouge's bra bombs awfully nice to look at. She's a sexy woman, they're great, and they're part of her look. But so are you and yours. Variety is a wonderful thing.
Think of it this way...just because you might enjoy looking at tall, tanned, toned, muscular guys with 6-pack abs, rock-hard biceps, and big ol' pecs, would you really think you were missing out on something significant if your bf didn't have all that?
we ALL find something to be a little insecure about this way huh?
but in reality, you get your kit off and the guy gets a look, like 'omg! naked girlie!! naked girlie!!! naked for me!!!! woohoo!!!!!' and remember that most of them are blind to the faults women see.
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Life is unfair, yes, and it may even be cruel--but even crueler (and avoidable) is to dwell on our own dissatisfactions. Surely it's more pleasant and rewarding to concentrate instead on the satisfactory aspects of our lives..... --And no, I'm not Pollyanna--just a realist.
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First, NO NEED FOR BREAST ENHANCEMENT HERE, OKAY?????
Second, You are very pretty, with a great bod, VERY sexy.
Third, although there's lots of talk about big titties, I dare say that most men don't care all that much about the size. A big rack may get attention from across the room, purely because it catches the eye moreso than a smaller set. But, when the clothes come off....
Fourth, there's WAY MORE TO BOOBS THAN THEIR SIZE. Shape, skin tone, nipple placement, the look and feel of the nipples themselves, and how the breasts integrate with the body as a whole. Personally, I don't favor humoungous tits. I'll often prefer a set of nice A's to D's. I even find some "completely flat-chested" women to be very feminine and sexy.
Fifth, your boobs won't turn in to "bloobs" in your later years.
You have no legitimate reason to be insecure about the attractiveness of your breasts.
Have a great day.
Second, You are very pretty, with a great bod, VERY sexy.
Third, although there's lots of talk about big titties, I dare say that most men don't care all that much about the size. A big rack may get attention from across the room, purely because it catches the eye moreso than a smaller set. But, when the clothes come off....
Fourth, there's WAY MORE TO BOOBS THAN THEIR SIZE. Shape, skin tone, nipple placement, the look and feel of the nipples themselves, and how the breasts integrate with the body as a whole. Personally, I don't favor humoungous tits. I'll often prefer a set of nice A's to D's. I even find some "completely flat-chested" women to be very feminine and sexy.
Fifth, your boobs won't turn in to "bloobs" in your later years.
You have no legitimate reason to be insecure about the attractiveness of your breasts.
Have a great day.
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The sexiest woman I've ever been with had practically no bust at all. I'm very happy with my current girl friend (very well-endowed), but the woman I fantasize about when I'm alone is the flatter-chested one. FWIW
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At least for me; I just want to see the rack once, and then the suspense is over. Smaller, medium, larger, whatever the case I just want to see what they look like.
More times than not, the bigger ones are shaped funny. The ones in Faceking's thread are in the top 0.0001% in the world. They don't represent most.
The bigger rack gets more attention because its not something you see everyday, just like a guy with big muscles or a mohawk. But it isn't necessarily any more sexy.
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More times than not, the bigger ones are shaped funny. The ones in Faceking's thread are in the top 0.0001% in the world. They don't represent most.
The bigger rack gets more attention because its not something you see everyday, just like a guy with big muscles or a mohawk. But it isn't necessarily any more sexy.
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i would love to have your breasts.
that said...you have a lot of pride in other things about your body, no? like your hair choices, your natural clean look and so on. if you could somehow regard your boobs with the same pride that'd be awesome, because they do look wonderful and they are a part of you. a funny, articulate, brighter than halogen, honest, amazing, natural, clean (not fussed up with makeup and products) and great-looking woman.
that said...you have a lot of pride in other things about your body, no? like your hair choices, your natural clean look and so on. if you could somehow regard your boobs with the same pride that'd be awesome, because they do look wonderful and they are a part of you. a funny, articulate, brighter than halogen, honest, amazing, natural, clean (not fussed up with makeup and products) and great-looking woman.
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you are a beautiful very pretty woman! You look great and sexy naked or clothed! There is abolutely no need to administer yourself a complex!
It seems that there are many men that like smaller breasts more, it also seems that they don't voice that. They kind of tits I like are, at least in public, discarded as too small or non-existent. Stupid men!
Let the others have the bigger ones if they really must. Smaller boobs are more beautiful much more fun! :smile::smile::smile::smile:
It seems that there are many men that like smaller breasts more, it also seems that they don't voice that. They kind of tits I like are, at least in public, discarded as too small or non-existent. Stupid men!
Let the others have the bigger ones if they really must. Smaller boobs are more beautiful much more fun! :smile::smile::smile::smile:
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Sweetie,
I've been exactly where you are. I was a 34B for my early life and always felt inadequate, even though I had an hourglass shape and my husband loved the way I looked.
But then in my second marriage (had to leave first, the love of my life, because he abused me - was a victim of abuse himself and there was no help back then), I began having babies. I had 6 pregnancies, 4 live births and 2 heartbreaking miscarriages but wanted all. I breastfed them all and ended up with 38D breasts - still kept the nice shape, only they got big. And God let me keep 'em after I stopped nursing!
I'm not saying it's a guaranteed thing to have breasts become larger with breastfeeding - I know some don't, but yours look a lot like mine did, so they may. Even if you don't nurse, with age comes a certain rounding/softening of the body usually, which may add to your breast size. Keep hope in your heart and accept your own beauty.
Try not to obsess about it. Life is difficult at best, but sometimes it does offer an unexpected gift, just when you least expect it. Don't let anyone get you down about your looks - you're a beautiful girl! Be thankful you're healthy and whole (you look a lot like my 33 year old daughter who has Rett Syndrome; she's beautiful, but she will never have a man make love to her).
I've been exactly where you are. I was a 34B for my early life and always felt inadequate, even though I had an hourglass shape and my husband loved the way I looked.
But then in my second marriage (had to leave first, the love of my life, because he abused me - was a victim of abuse himself and there was no help back then), I began having babies. I had 6 pregnancies, 4 live births and 2 heartbreaking miscarriages but wanted all. I breastfed them all and ended up with 38D breasts - still kept the nice shape, only they got big. And God let me keep 'em after I stopped nursing!
I'm not saying it's a guaranteed thing to have breasts become larger with breastfeeding - I know some don't, but yours look a lot like mine did, so they may. Even if you don't nurse, with age comes a certain rounding/softening of the body usually, which may add to your breast size. Keep hope in your heart and accept your own beauty.
Try not to obsess about it. Life is difficult at best, but sometimes it does offer an unexpected gift, just when you least expect it. Don't let anyone get you down about your looks - you're a beautiful girl! Be thankful you're healthy and whole (you look a lot like my 33 year old daughter who has Rett Syndrome; she's beautiful, but she will never have a man make love to her).
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