this site is starting to give me a complex

[hud01]

OK, maybe he does look at the occasional woman with big boobs. Hell, even I do that, and I haven't had sex with a woman in teh best part of 20 years!

That is great...Kinda like you stop to look at a car wreck, but really don't want to be in one.

:laola:

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

Both porn and LPSG are full of fakes, so why be down over it. Cheer up :smile:

Fixed. Anyway, I find a good pair of ribs is a wonderful, wonderful thing on a woman, it's not the first thing you notice, but it's part of the general aesthete that is so sexy!

 

[Daisy]

see...I knew if I looked at your pics I'd find something to be jealous of. I have great big boobs..OK..but you have a great ass. Nicer than mine So there ya go!!!

 

[voyeuristic]

"you'll feel better about yourself if you do something that proves to yourself that there's more to you and to life than a good body and perky tits"

Um, d'oh.

I really appreciate all the supportive comments in this thread but some of them fail to take into account the fact that I obviously do realize insecurity is a waste of time and am actively trying to dismantle it. Feeling insecure doesn't mean that I don't have other things going on in my life, including friends, loving partners (yes, plural), an education, hobbies, and a job where I impact people's lives directly for the better. Nowhere in my original post did I say that there was nothing more to me than my breast size, or that I don't realize that most people recognize this - I was simply struggling with temporary and relatively new insecurity about something very specific, and venting. I am generally a very confident, outspoken person and lover who has traveled around the world on my own. I'm also a woman who bucks almost all beauty standards/rituals, and have since I was 18. It's not as if I've spent the last fifteen years sitting around refusing to leave the house because I'm small-chested - I was merely noting that it would be nice to see an occasional show of appreciation for lesser-endowed women, and not having seen that at all on here makes me wonder if it's reflective of a general distaste for our sort in the population. I know that people generally don't choose mates based solely on their tit (or cock) size. That said, I would still rather end up dating people who, if given the choice, wouldn't change a thing in that regard. I realize this may be a delusional wish but it's something I can't shake.

TheRob - I didn't insult men with micropenises, actually - nor did I equate them with penises which are statistically average. I just related the common perceptions of them which I've seen expressed on here and in the world and drew a correlation between what I imagined some of them might struggle with and what I was facing. It's interesting how you interpreted my show of solidarity as something totally different.

 

[bunnpris]

I agree with you. I don`t care so much about my wifes breastsize, but I`m working on my own dicksize for becoming more satiesfied with it. I know that my wife wants me thicker and I`m working on it.

 

[TinyPrincess]

Fixed.

Thanks

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

Thanks

You're welcome.

I think smaller-boobed women need more love...now where do I sign up for this task? :tongue:

 

[D_Petherick_Poundlouder]

I haven't been on here lately. But...I dont know if thats a bad thing. Take that into consideration. Also, take in consideration that I'm still interested, lol.

 

[TinyPrincess]

You're welcome.

I think smaller-boobed women need more love...now where do I sign up for this task? :tongue:

What about tiny women - we need more love as well :tongue::wink:

 

[sxy_vince]

I'm definitely not hoping for or expecting bigger breasts from breastfeeding, even if I do end up having a child. I think a lot of people seem to have missed the point of this thread, which is that I wouldn't change my breast size even if I could but want to find a way to feel less insecure about something that appears to be a very rare preference.

Here is my suggestion to which attempts to address your comment in bold above. My suggestion is a bit unorthodox so I was a bit cautious about presenting it, but I decided to anyway because it might be of help to you:



Convince yourself that you have a hot body, and that your breasts are attractive. That's my advice.

• Take on board any information that supports this view, and ignore any information that contradicts this view. If you want some ammunition, perhaps you could google "small firm breasts forum" or something like that and I'm sure you will find men who express their love of petite firm breasts.
• If your boyfriend expresses attraction to your breasts then allow yourself to believe him.

If you dwelll on percieved weaknesses then you are natually going to feel bad about yourself. I think this is natural; it is probably programmed into us as humans and probably won't go away - its impossible for us to focus on something we think other people dislike in us and still feel good about ourselves. Therefore, the most effective way of address insecurities is for us to pay no attention to those percieved weaknesses and to focus on how beautiful we are.

If you have attractive body, including breasts, (which you do!) then it is your interests to convince yourself that you're hot. However, even if you didn't have an attractive body (not applicable, btw!) it would still be in your interests to convince yourself that you're hot.

I personally find ass to me more of a turn-on than breasts. And I perhaps have a preference for smaller firmer breasts, like your own. You may or may not believe me. However, it is in your interest to believe me.

p.s. I know this sounds weird. I'm not entirely convinced that this is the best way of dealing with insecurities, but it is one option so I am putting it out there for consideration.

 

[Mark_UK]

Thor, I hadn't been here much in several months, and I noticed that my insecurities really relapsed when I returned. I think your advice is worth taking, but I have a hard time staying away from the uncut cocks...and all the great advice on buttsex, etc.!

Of course everyone loves their partner's body if they love the person, but if they could snap their fingers, there are probably some things that most people would change. Now, I can't help but feeling like those "things" are my breasts, for most guys. That's all. Of course, we live in the real world, not a fantasy, so people very rarely get everything they want. Out of curiosity, are you small, or just average in size?

Don't forget that a lot of guys like small breasts, more than a mouthful is a waste as they say, or I say anyway.

 

[TheRob]

What about tiny women - we need more love as well :tongue::wink:

I like tiny women but to be honest it's easy to lose track of you sometimes

 

[TheRob]

TheRob - I didn't insult men with micropenises, actually - nor did I equate them with penises which are statistically average. I just related the common perceptions of them which I've seen expressed on here and in the world and drew a correlation between what I imagined some of them might struggle with and what I was facing. It's interesting how you interpreted my show of solidarity as something totally different

no, what's interesting is how you are trying to backpeddle from what you had said, your inability to simply state that you spoke in error is further indicative of a lack of self confidence. Despite the image you attempt to put forward, what you say demonstraights self esteem problems

 

[Wish-4-8]

What about tiny women - we need more love as well :tongue::wink:

SPINNERS!!! HOORAY FOR SPINNERS!!!:wink:

 

[Novus]

Seriously...I feel like the female equivalent of all the guys with micropenises who find themselves here and then beat themselves up for not being good enough.

I'd never had a problem with my breast size until very recently - I think they're perky and nicely shaped, and I've enjoyed the fact that I never need to wear a bra. I've never even considered surgery, enhancement bras, or anything of that nature - I figured that I've got what I got and it'll just have to be good enough. Almost all of the threads about attractive women here seem to be focused on massive tits, though - and it seems like the more time I spend looking at porn or reading LPSG, the worse I feel about myself. I always assumed that when guys I've been with said they like my breasts, they were being honest - but after spending a lot of time on this site, I feel like most of them were probably just settling because they liked other things about me but really would have preferred that I have DD cups. I know that huge tits aren't the most important thing in the world and that personality, a cute face, and big heart will trump them for most people - but I want to be with people who actually prefer my body type and are not just settling for it, and after reading too many posts on this forum I'm left feeling like that's probably delusional. It doesn't seem like very many guys are into less-endowed women, and when they are they're invariably 18 year old, 90 lb. girls from Japan.

My boyfriend loves me and is very much attracted to me, and we have hot sex, but most of the girls he checks out have much bigger breasts than me (okay, granted, almost all women do), and between that and all the posts on here, I'm feeling pretty down on a part of myself that had never given me any grief before. I think about the way men with micropenises are mocked by most people (male and female) and I wonder if I'm the female equivalent of that - do men sit around and make fun of women with small chests? Do they feel sorry for us? Do they express disappointment to their friends when they go on a date with a woman and find out she's not as endowed as they hoped?

This morning when my fella and I had sex, I didn't feel like taking my shirt off. When he touched my nipples, I wanted to cry. He knows that I've been feeling self-conscious about this lately and I felt like he was trying to give that area a bit of extra attention...but I felt so ashamed of that part of me for the first time in my life. It was so strange and sad, and really made me wonder if maybe I should stop checking out sex-related forums and porn, because in the real world things like charisma will often get one further than being stacked. I just can't stop obsessing over statistics and polls now, though, and feeling abnormal/less than/not good enough. It's a horrible feeling, and it makes me really empathize with all the tiny-dicked men who struggle with their size. It must be rough for you guys, too. Big hugs to you!

Sorry, just had to get that off my chest. Pun very much intended!

If anyone has any advice for combatting these sorts of insecurities, I'm all ears.

I didn't read the whole topic, but I just want to say that I far prefer smaller breasts. My ideal size is probably just a B cup, and I find the bigger C's kinda gross (sorry if I offended anyone). I do like 18 year olds, but thats because I'm 18 myself. I also find really skinny girls gross too. Thats just my two cent.

 

[SwingDriver]

OP,

I bet your smile makes up a million times for anything you lack in breast size. Your photos show a very striking, expressive, attractive face.

I'm basically sayin', A, C, DD cups, it doesn't matter much. Cups, schmups, I say! You just look good. Breast size isn't everything, nor is ass, legs, hips, or stomach. The attraction is in the whole woman--the factors that make a man say, "wow, she's a '10,'" or "she's about a '6,'" aren't as easily quantifiable as our traditional numerical "hotness" scale might suggest.

 

[Ed69]

Seriously...I feel like the female equivalent of all the guys with micropenises who find themselves here and then beat themselves up for not being good enough.

I'd never had a problem with my breast size until very recently - I think they're perky and nicely shaped, and I've enjoyed the fact that I never need to wear a bra. I've never even considered surgery, enhancement bras, or anything of that nature - I figured that I've got what I got and it'll just have to be good enough. Almost all of the threads about attractive women here seem to be focused on massive tits, though - and it seems like the more time I spend looking at porn or reading LPSG, the worse I feel about myself. I always assumed that when guys I've been with said they like my breasts, they were being honest - but after spending a lot of time on this site, I feel like most of them were probably just settling because they liked other things about me but really would have preferred that I have DD cups. I know that huge tits aren't the most important thing in the world and that personality, a cute face, and big heart will trump them for most people - but I want to be with people who actually prefer my body type and are not just settling for it, and after reading too many posts on this forum I'm left feeling like that's probably delusional. It doesn't seem like very many guys are into less-endowed women, and when they are they're invariably 18 year old, 90 lb. girls from Japan.

My boyfriend loves me and is very much attracted to me, and we have hot sex, but most of the girls he checks out have much bigger breasts than me (okay, granted, almost all women do), and between that and all the posts on here, I'm feeling pretty down on a part of myself that had never given me any grief before. I think about the way men with micropenises are mocked by most people (male and female) and I wonder if I'm the female equivalent of that - do men sit around and make fun of women with small chests? Do they feel sorry for us? Do they express disappointment to their friends when they go on a date with a woman and find out she's not as endowed as they hoped?

This morning when my fella and I had sex, I didn't feel like taking my shirt off. When he touched my nipples, I wanted to cry. He knows that I've been feeling self-conscious about this lately and I felt like he was trying to give that area a bit of extra attention...but I felt so ashamed of that part of me for the first time in my life. It was so strange and sad, and really made me wonder if maybe I should stop checking out sex-related forums and porn, because in the real world things like charisma will often get one further than being stacked. I just can't stop obsessing over statistics and polls now, though, and feeling abnormal/less than/not good enough. It's a horrible feeling, and it makes me really empathize with all the tiny-dicked men who struggle with their size. It must be rough for you guys, too. Big hugs to you!

Sorry, just had to get that off my chest. Pun very much intended!

If anyone has any advice for combatting these sorts of insecurities, I'm all ears.

Learn to bait your own hook!And don't stay home when your man goes out!:smile:

YouTube - Brad Paisley - I'm Gonna Miss Her

And never forget the little moments!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uC-DKjkxbv0&NR=1

 

[Sassy]

Voyeuristic, I used to share some of the insecurities you mentioned about my chest size, especially since my sisters are C's and D's (after nursing a child, one is now a DD), and I'm much smaller. I looked forward to nursing since I thought I'd enjoy having a larger chest.

Guess what? Yes, my breasts were very large and bouncy, but I was extremely self-conscious about having men noticing them before anything else about me. I wore bras the entire year I nursed except for when in the shower. Not fun!

I'm a little larger-chested now than before having a child, but am back to being "perky." I thought that my husband would have preferred my breasts when I was nursing, but he was quite indifferent to the larger ones.

My breasts are proportionate to the rest of me, and, having experienced the "other side of the fence," am very happy with what I have (as is my honey!). My sister, though, is envious that I can go bra-less.:tongue:

Just a question: are you having insecurities about being on this site with many large-breasted women, or are you having insecurities because of your open relationship?

 

[B_DEATHbyCARROT]

Any women who have this issue take a look at my thread here:

http://www.lpsg.org/69371-big-tits-not-now-ill.html

You are different from women with big ones but unlike penii its mostly a visual thing and half the time I prefer small perky ones to the bugguns...

 

[D_Jerry_Atric]

Seriously...I feel like the female equivalent of all the guys with micropenises who find themselves here and then beat themselves up for not being good enough.

I'd never had a problem with my breast size until very recently - I think they're perky and nicely shaped, and I've enjoyed the fact that I never need to wear a bra. I've never even considered surgery, enhancement bras, or anything of that nature - I figured that I've got what I got and it'll just have to be good enough. Almost all of the threads about attractive women here seem to be focused on massive tits, though - and it seems like the more time I spend looking at porn or reading LPSG, the worse I feel about myself. I always assumed that when guys I've been with said they like my breasts, they were being honest - but after spending a lot of time on this site, I feel like most of them were probably just settling because they liked other things about me but really would have preferred that I have DD cups. I know that huge tits aren't the most important thing in the world and that personality, a cute face, and big heart will trump them for most people - but I want to be with people who actually prefer my body type and are not just settling for it, and after reading too many posts on this forum I'm left feeling like that's probably delusional. It doesn't seem like very many guys are into less-endowed women, and when they are they're invariably 18 year old, 90 lb. girls from Japan.

My boyfriend loves me and is very much attracted to me, and we have hot sex, but most of the girls he checks out have much bigger breasts than me (okay, granted, almost all women do), and between that and all the posts on here, I'm feeling pretty down on a part of myself that had never given me any grief before. I think about the way men with micropenises are mocked by most people (male and female) and I wonder if I'm the female equivalent of that - do men sit around and make fun of women with small chests? Do they feel sorry for us? Do they express disappointment to their friends when they go on a date with a woman and find out she's not as endowed as they hoped?

This morning when my fella and I had sex, I didn't feel like taking my shirt off. When he touched my nipples, I wanted to cry. He knows that I've been feeling self-conscious about this lately and I felt like he was trying to give that area a bit of extra attention...but I felt so ashamed of that part of me for the first time in my life. It was so strange and sad, and really made me wonder if maybe I should stop checking out sex-related forums and porn, because in the real world things like charisma will often get one further than being stacked. I just can't stop obsessing over statistics and polls now, though, and feeling abnormal/less than/not good enough. It's a horrible feeling, and it makes me really empathize with all the tiny-dicked men who struggle with their size. It must be rough for you guys, too. Big hugs to you!

Sorry, just had to get that off my chest. Pun very much intended!

If anyone has any advice for combatting these sorts of insecurities, I'm all ears.

Seeing as you are a MAJOR size queen towards men's cocks, I do not feel one ounce of sympathy for you or care that you have this problem.