This site really ROCKS! I can't even remember how I stumbled onto it. But, I am glad I did. I've never seen one place that is open to such a spectrum of sexuality... and where people dare to be honest about a lot of normally "secretive" taboos. I'm 44 years old. I identify as a Gay man, but that is only because I felt "forced" into a label. I was married to woman at a very early age, although both of us knew I was a "gay" leaner. Divorced young too. Was completely "out of the closet" by 22yrs old. Although 95% of my fantasies are gay ones... there is still 5% of me that (from time to time) would love to go down on a woman and make her moan... Secret Fantasy? 2 Guys and a Girl with NO HANG-UPS. Ending in a three way sandwich with me in the middle. Have lived pretty much an exclusive gay lifestyle... have no hang-ups. Am a bear type... prefer well-endowed thin chasers tops. Have made 3 Bear Porn Professional Videos in Paris. Am 7.5 long and 6 around with a big mushroom head. Uncut. Love to do outdoor nudes... but being a bear type, it's not for everyone. I guess that's it. Thanks for all the great contributions... and the respect. Nice to see Straight men and women who are not homophobic and feel comfortable chatting with EVERYONE. A place where EVERYONE can admire EVERYONE. Doesn't happen much in today's world.