It is if you want comfort.
yup, also want it to look ok as well.
It is if you want comfort.
Anyone know any str8 dude friends that wear thongs?
Anyone know any str8 dude friends that wear thongs?
I think it's got something to do with how much it reveals and emphasises the butt. Same reason why I've seen Americans, especially, mock the idea of men wearing many kinds of trousers without back pockets.Why are thongs so socially unacceptable for dudes to wear?
I think it's got something to do with how much it reveals and emphasises the butt. Same reason why I've seen Americans, especially, mock the idea of men wearing many kinds of trousers without back pockets.
I think a big and/or emphasised ass is seen as a very "feminine" thing, so for any man to sport it means he must be gay or whatever, and therefore receive ridicule.
Why are thongs so socially unacceptable for dudes to wear?
I think it isn't necessarily helpful to try to find logic in such things.
Some things can be re-contextualised. EG a lot of people used to see kilts as being like skirts, and would make fun of the men who wore them as if it was effeminate, but now - as a thread here shows very well - they are seen as quite masculine.
So, some of it is just short-term social convention, and old fashioned views of gender. Women are "supposed to" want to display their bodies in a sexual way, so it's seen as OK for them to wear thongs, but men are "supposed to" be neutral providers, or functional warrior types, so these things are seen as too effeminate, and/or sexual / self-regarding / narcissistic ...
It doesn't really make sense. Luckily there are some areas where there are other factors that eventually shake things up and you see changes happening. EG sports people want smooth clothing that won't get tangled up or is aerodynamic etc. So there's a lot more lycra around. I think dance and other performing arts also have an influence. You see more leather around because of motorcycling, more rubber because of water sports and so on ...
So eventually things change, and in the meantime people should wear whatever they want to, and/or feel comfortable with ... within the law.
Anyone have front and back pics they can post?