where you(women) can't hardly be touched for minutes afterward and usually just want to be held. At least for me, thats a pretty common response by my partners over the years to orgasms reached by oral or vibrator or fingers. Not nearly as common in my experience with an orgasm reached during intercourse. Do the ladies find that to be their expereince too? Idid do a search but put in the word orgasm and you get a billion hits.