Those who are married....

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by collin52, Jul 27, 2008.

  1. collin52

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    This may have already been asked, but I just want to get a feel for how healthy my married sex life is. For all you that are married - how many times per week (on average) do you and your spouse have sex?
     
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    times per week?
     
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    married to a man...on the average 6-10 times per week
     
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    well before i had hand surgery last week. it was every night cause ,if we dont have it every night my hubby is such a horn dog lol that he sings little perverted songs to me all threw the day and night untill we go to bed, i think they are so cute the way he makes them up so fast and rhymes everything together. but his high sex drive is sometimes more than i can handle . as much as i hate to addmit it. but after 16 yrs, the sex in our marriage is still fantastic to me. even thow he wants it 24/7 lol i still love him very much
     
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    Married 11 yrs here and as the song goes

    We get it almost every night
    when that moon is big and bright
    its a supernatural delight
    everybody’s dancing in the moonlight
     
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    Just hit 25 years...Uh, per week ? How about per month.

    With both of us working and 2 teenage boys at home, both are time and endurance is limited.

    But when we do get together...it's great. I'd rather have awesome sex 3 times a month, than to just have sex twice a week.

    I fill in the blanks by J/O...wife doesn't mind...takes the pressure off.
     
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    Sex during our engagement was fantastic.

    Sex after marriage? Wait, there is such a thing?

    About once every two months for us, and on those rare occasions that it happens, it's no where near as wild as it used to be.

    *sigh*
     
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    4 OR 5 times a week so far
     
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    Married 45 years. When first married of course tried to at least once every day. After 2 kids was down to about 60 % with JO fill-ins that brought it back to 100% plus. This was pretty normal til we hit 60 years old. But then I started PE and added 1.75" length and .5" grith. At about the same time, the wifes moisture dried up so intercourse went to almost zero(she couldn't handle my size) being replaced by BJs. Now it's about 40% oral and 20% mast. or e-stim. It's hell getting old but I don't like the alternative. lol It takes so long to get her aroused enough for intercourse, I have to use viagra, which I hate, to keep it up. Gives me an 18 hour headache(the viagra).
     
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    6 - 10 times per week? Wow, maybe I need to swich sides.

    I just broke up with a long term GF last week but before that, we were about 4 times per week. Once or twice during the week and maybe three times onteh weekend.

    Vacation? LOTS and LOTS.

     
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    Twice a month if I'm lucky. Having the kids just killed her sex drive.
     
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    Married twenty years, demanding jobs, two kids...probably once every four or five days. J/O and whatever else fills in the gaps for me (daily) or I become evil.
     
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    Hubby and I have been married 19 years......and I get lucky once or twice a week. (Weekends usually) We have 2 young children who sleepwalk and end up in our bed every night. I must snore.....because hubby sleeps a lot on the couch where he falls asleep in front of our big screened T.V.. And he is exhausted from working his high stress job everyday. He gets a hand job from me whenever he asks for it with erotic sex talk. (probably 3 times a week)

    Me, I take care of myself with toys and occasional web camming. It really helps me out.

    When we take a vacation or a holiday.....I get lucky as much as I want. He is my sex slave. Anyways it works for us. Give and take.
     
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    Since the last month, once a day, twice on weekends and other lucky days.
     
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    Give and you will recieve.Show me yours,I'll show you mine.:rolleyes:
     
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    All of these sound pretty healthy to me. Remember its not the quantity its the quality. I was married to an average looking woman who was kind of pudgy and we had a great sex lif for the better part of 19 and a half years until she left me for a minimum wage ambulance driver with type 2 diabetes who cant even get a boner without pills or injections. I have since remarried to a gorgeous brown haired blue-eyed Italian woman who made me realize what sex is really about. Sometimes ten times a week, sometimes twice a week. Either way when I am in her I feel fucking great!:biggrin1:
     
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    SEX?

    WHAT is that?

    Oh, um he gets horny at the strangest darn times!!!:mad:
    I am not in the freaking mood. So, I just do it.." Because he is horny. when I am WAY horny!! He is not in the darn mood and I don't get SEX....:frown1::confused:
     
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    After 11 years and having three kids around the house sex doesn't happen as frequent as it did when we just met. We're down to a couple of times a week now, used to be a couple of times a day. Oh well, we still love each other and have a great time, so who cares?
     
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    I am a newlywed. My wife( fiancee) and I were making love daily! Now, she is four months pregnant and the pace has slowed..
     
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    Married a very long time. We are sexually active and average every other day. That works out to three times a week and then followed by four times a week.

    Therefore 3.5 times 52 equals 182 times a year. Not bad if I must say so myself.

    Life continues to be great.
     
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