Married 45 years. When first married of course tried to at least once every day. After 2 kids was down to about 60 % with JO fill-ins that brought it back to 100% plus. This was pretty normal til we hit 60 years old. But then I started PE and added 1.75" length and .5" grith. At about the same time, the wifes moisture dried up so intercourse went to almost zero(she couldn't handle my size) being replaced by BJs. Now it's about 40% oral and 20% mast. or e-stim. It's hell getting old but I don't like the alternative. lol It takes so long to get her aroused enough for intercourse, I have to use viagra, which I hate, to keep it up. Gives me an 18 hour headache(the viagra).