How do you (Men or Women..gay, bi, trans or straight) decide when it's okay or safe to have sex without a condom. I'm assuming you're an all out person once you make this decision. What I mean is, you swallow, let him cum inside your ass or pussy. Just curious what the process is for you. For example, I would usually have condom sex for a few weeks or months and ask them if they've been tested or to provide test results. If they can't, Iask if they are willing to take a test? If not then we just continue to have safe sex. This of course if they ask or attempt to have unseafe sex. Otherwise I just keep having sex with condom. It's such a tough decision, because I love sex without condoms, and love cum inside of my mouth and ass. I've done it a few times and loved it. But I was younger and not as smart as I am now. Do women have the same struggle? Is it a struggle for all sexes? Just curious.