Thoughts from the fairer sex...

[693987]

I'm not implying anything. I'm stating my personal opinion and pointed out that many people use this site for many different things. I never said it was wrong in any way if people do want to use the site for showing off or looking at people showing off, merely that not everyone uses it for those purposes, much less exclusively for those purposes. It's also not "my" agenda, considering moderators agreed with whoever reported this thread as Showing Off enough to move it from Ask a Woman. Further, calling someone out as a fake is against the terms of service that everyone agrees to when they join the site. If you have concerns over someone you can report it to the mods.

Edited to add: And yes, I speak of my opinions and experiences because I'm not so arrogant as to try and speak for other people.

 

[Dollydud]

You’re dodging the question . Why were you redirecting him the “show off” forum.

He posted his comment and question in the forum, “ask a women.”

He wasn’t asking for directions. He had his own reasons for posting where he wanted too. Why are you questioning and correcting him.

People don’t need to justify anything else when they’ve done nothing wrong. responding to him like this was rude. Even though he was being polite and giving you the explanation, you continued to dismiss it & you others piggy backed.


Do you not realize a trend ? Nice & sincere guys and their questions get attacked. Why?

 

[Dollydud]

So its your opinion he was not asking women for their opinion about his size . Got it.


Too bad there’s not a, “complete and utter bullshit” forum to redirect “opinions” threads too.

 

[Dollydud]

I'm just gonna leave this right here.

okay so you’ve said this, replying to my comment with “I’m just gonna leave this right here.”

It repost my commment and then you leave the convo. Are you saying your leaving the conversation because Of what I said?

If you’d like to discuss what I’ve said or if you would like to clarify what this even means and why your reposting my comments I’d really appreciate it.


If not, I assume its a non issue and dismiss it.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Areyou capable of calling your own bullshit... if you’d not interested in the topic and have no desire towards the subject matter, don’t comment/ join the discussion. It’s really annoying when people feel the need to jump in the say their not interested ... um, that wasn’t the topic or question.

The question wasn’t: “what keeps tight_n_juicy coming back, does she like to look and comment on pics, if not why”

The question wasn’t: “how Long has Jade been a member of the site, what’s her relationship to juicy, what category are pic size questions allowed...”


Ladies, if you need and want attention it’s okay. Don’t shake a man for explicitly asking for what he wants. In fact, why not give it a try? There’s nothing wrong with asking for attention. What’s annoying people and giving off a bad impression is the indirect way your going about it.

What's your deal with me? I just twist the fuck out ya panties and I don't know why

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You’re dodging the question . Why were you redirecting him the “show off” forum.

He posted his comment and question in the forum, “ask a women.”

He wasn’t asking for directions. He had his own reasons for posting where he wanted too. Why are you questioning and correcting him.

People don’t need to justify anything else when they’ve done nothing wrong. responding to him like this was rude. Even though he was being polite and giving you the explanation, you continued to dismiss it & you others piggy backed.


Do you not realize a trend ? Nice & sincere guys and their questions get attacked. Why?

I was actually respectful in my response to this guy so I'm not sure why you're jumping down my throat.. but if you read the rules of this sub-forum it's AGAINST THE RULES to post questions specifically trying to get your pics looked at in the Ask Someone sections. That's what the Show Off section is for.

Just to answer your question.

 

[Tosantos]

OP very few women on here actually give feedback. Best to stay away from most of the ladies in the forums if you're looking to show off or to chat about that kind of stuff. The ones that do look and comment usually hang around the galleries or chat etc and very rarely come to the forum sections as far as I know.

 

[286798]

okay so you’ve said this, replying to my comment with “I’m just gonna leave this right here.”

It repost my commment and then you leave the convo. Are you saying your leaving the conversation because Of what I said?

If you’d like to discuss what I’ve said or if you would like to clarify what this even means and why your reposting my comments I’d really appreciate it.


If not, I assume its a non issue and dismiss it.

I didn't leave the conversation...

I was just highlighting how you are guilty of so much that you call out.

Sometimes it’s fun to engage in the ridiculousness, but it gets repetitive and boring.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

OP very few women on here actually give feedback. Best to stay away from most of the ladies in the forums if you're looking to show off or to chat about that kind of stuff. The ones that do look and comment usually hang around the galleries or chat etc and very rarely come to the forum sections as far as I know.

Actually, not best to "stay away" if you want feedback. Best to be respectful. I'll look at someone's picks but not often... And only if the person catches my interest with humor and respect. (And, following the rules of the site/sub-forums is a huge plus..)

OP.. you've been decent here. Keep that up and I may have a peek at some point. But, I'm not obligated to do so. Keep that in mind

(Oh, and that emoji you used is an eye roll. Just FYI)

 

[286798]

Actually, not best to "stay away" if you want feedback. Best to be respectful. I'll look at someone's picks but not often... And only if the person catches my interest with humor and respect.

OP.. you've been decent here. Keep that up and I may have a peek at some point. But, I'm not obligated to do so. Keep that in mind

^^ this ^^

 

[Dollydud]

I was actually respectful in my response to this guy so I'm not sure why you're jumping down my throat.. but if you read the rules of this sub-forum it's AGAINST THE RULES to post questions specifically trying to get your pics looked at in the Ask Someone sections. That's what the Show Off section is for.

Just to answer your question.

Oh. Well that’s good to know. I didn’t know that this was a rule. I’ll be honest, I don’t look at the photos much.


Im new to the site and these forums. I can see now why some questions and post are written in manner they are .


I wasn’t jumping down your throat. I’m genuinely questioning what’s acceptable and what’s not .


I’m mostly just thinking out loud.


I’ll take a glance at the rules . Thanks for pointing that out and for the info.

 

[Dollydud]

What's your deal with me? I just twist the fuck out ya panties and I don't know why

I don’t have a deal with you per se. I’m more curious about the dynamic. There’s a lot of double speak and irony. I actually like how candid you.

Maybe you do. I’m not entirely sure . TBD

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Oh. Well that’s good to know. I didn’t know that this was a rule. I’ll be honest, I don’t look at the photos much.


Im new to the site and these forums. I can see now why some questions and post are written in manner they are .


I wasn’t jumping down your throat. I’m genuinely questioning what’s acceptable and what’s not .


I’m mostly just thinking out loud.


I’ll take a glance at the rules . Thanks for pointing that out and for the info.

Some friendly advice (really, I'm just offering an olive branch here..) do some back-reading. Many long time members have answered the same questions over and over, things like this have been pointed out again and again.

I've made my share of mistakes and members who have been here longer than me pointed me in the right direction.

 

[BWPHOENIX]

Actually, not best to "stay away" if you want feedback. Best to be respectful. I'll look at someone's picks but not often... And only if the person catches my interest with humor and respect. (And, following the rules of the site/sub-forums is a huge plus..)

OP.. you've been decent here. Keep that up and I may have a peek at some point. But, I'm not obligated to do so. Keep that in mind

(Oh, and that emoji you used is an eye roll. Just FYI)

Thanks, I know that now. And in no way would I ever expect anyone to be obligated. Just looking for an honest opinion. If that's not your thing I completely understand.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I’m more curious about the dynamic. There’s a lot of double speak and irony.

I find that odd. Not trying to toot my own horn (he already did that for me this morning ) but I feel like my posts are consistent and clear.

But hey, what do I know

 

[Dollydud]

Okay but do you get that the nice and respectful guys are running away from the

I find that odd. Not trying to toot my own horn (he already did that for me this morning ) but I feel like my posts are consistent and clear.

But hey, what do I know

Well, I find it odd you ladies are members . You have no business controlling the forums. Why must you drive all the nice respectful straight men away from forums and discourage them from having conversation with women on this site.

I find that odd. Not trying to toot my own horn (he already did that for me this morning ) but I feel like my posts are consistent and clear.

But hey, what do I know

...That you’re possibly into women or bi/gay men?

 

[Dollydud]

Some friendly advice (really, I'm just offering an olive branch here..) do some back-reading. Many long time members have answered the same questions over and over, things like this have been pointed out again and again.

I've made my share of mistakes and members who have been here longer than me pointed me in the right direction.

I’m not your enemy. Haha. Olive branch treaty .

Just FYI Im not anyone’s enemy. Nor am I a puppet .

Not having control of someone, doesn’t automatically make them your enemy .

 

[Dollydud]

Okay but do you get that the nice and respectful guys are running away from the

Well, I find it odd you ladies are members . You have no business controlling the forums. Why must you drive all the nice respectful straight men away from forums and discourage them from having conversation with women on this site.




...That you’re possibly into women or bi/gay men?

It’s a collective “You”...I don’t mean you specifically . Like a a shared mentality .


Ah, nevermind. I digress.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Okay but do you get that the nice and respectful guys are running away from the

Well, I find it odd you ladies are members . You have no business controlling the forums. Why must you drive all the nice respectful straight men away from forums and discourage them from having conversation with women on this site.

...That you’re possibly into women or bi/gay men?

I don't control the forums, just like the men. They don't control the women here either. I'm not here to cater to their feelings and make them feel welcome. I'm here to enjoy myself and have a giggle.

I drive away the misogynist assholes. I drive away the fuckers who don't respect women. The nice fellas, who treat others like human beings... They know who they are, and they're all good in my book. They're the ones who don't ignore the rules once they know them. They're the ones who don't assume we're lying because we don't answer their questions exactly as they want to be answered. The good men, they don't steer clear of the women who frequent the forums.

Now, we've derailed this thread enough. Sorry OP... I'll be off now

 

[Dollydud]

I don't control the forums, just like the men. They don't control the women here either. I'm not here to cater to their feelings and make them feel welcome. I'm here to enjoy myself and have a giggle.

I drive away the misogynist assholes. I drive away the fuckers who don't respect women. The nice fellas, who treat others like human beings... They know who they are, and they're all good in my book. They're the ones who don't ignore the rules once they know them. They're the ones who don't assume we're lying because we don't answer their questions exactly as they want to be answered. The good men, they don't steer clear of the women who frequent the forums.

Now, we've derailed this thread enough. Sorry OP... I'll be off now

I don't control the forums, just like the men. They don't control the women here either. I'm not here to cater to their feelings and make them feel welcome. I'm here to enjoy myself and have a giggle.

I drive away the misogynist assholes. I drive away the fuckers who don't respect women. The nice fellas, who treat others like human beings... They know who they are, and they're all good in my book. They're the ones who don't ignore the rules once they know them. They're the ones who don't assume we're lying because we don't answer their questions exactly as they want to be answered. The good men, they don't steer clear of the women who frequent the forums.

Now, we've derailed this thread enough. Sorry OP... I'll be off now

I ask a lot of plausible questions . I apologize if there’s an impression that I’m looking for an specific answer. This did go a bit off topic but I will look at the rules and appreciate the convo and your involvement. I’m off too. Thx TNJ for the convo.


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