Thoughts of another while having sex?

[njman2008]

Have any of the women thought about another person while having sex? What about if it is not direct intercourse but manual or oral stimulation?

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Goes without saying buddy.

 

[Kayden96]

I'm surprised if they think of me at all...

 

[njman2008]

if it goes without saying how do you feel about it?

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I've never done that. I'm sure people have tho, including people I've slept with. If I thought about it enough, it might bother me, so I just don't think about it. :tongue:

 

[441771]

This is common and most people including women fantasize about other people during sex.

 

[3664shaken]

Have any of the women thought about another person while having sex? What about if it is not direct intercourse but manual or oral stimulation?

I have but it is usually a turn off and leads to bad sex and no orgasm for me. I want to enjoy the person whom I am with.

However when solo it's a different story.

 

[missdee]

I do this just about every time. There are certain people that really turn me on, and I almost always think about one. This is whether I'm with my boyfriend or alone. He knows that I do it and he kinda likes it too.

 

[MickeyLee]

never. i'm kind of in the moment and not thinking of anything other than skin on skin, my you feel amazing, you taste good, etc.

for some season disappearing into your own head, some fantasy, seems depressing. and like really awful sex to begin with. :sad: