Thoughts On C2C?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Crex, May 29, 2010.

  1. Crex

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    So from time to time I've felt like camming with other guys and jerking off. I've always felt that it's a safe way to experience other guys sexually without the fear of getting an STD or doing something I'd regret later with a stranger.

    However, when I do it on the rare occasion, I always find myself in a similar pattern. First, I'm really hot and turned on by the idea of exposing my cock to someone who wants to see it, and watching them touch themselves to my image is pretty cool.

    Then, about halfway through, I start to feel weird about it. It's not guilt, I don't think, but it's something like it. I just feel like I shouldn't be doing it, and that it's somehow dirty.

    I'm not sure if that's just because of my upbringing, or how society teaches us to differentiate between right and wrong behavior, but I get to thinking about it so much that I can very RARELY finish and have to turn off the cam and find something else to jerk to.

    Does anyone else feel like this? Do you guys like to cam or is it just not your thing? I dunno, the more I do it, the more I'm realizing that it's not something I enjoy as much as I thought I would.
     
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    It's funny: I find C2C unappetizing because it excludes body contact and reminds me of phone sex. If I'm gonna JO I'd rather be watching porn, and if I'm gonna fuck, I wanna fuck: call me jaded.

    If you feel that something's not sitting right with you personally (for what ever reason) then you shouldn't do it. But from my perspective it's entirely harmless.
     
  3. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I don't like camming 1 on 1. I prefer to cam in a group sitting in the chatroom. I like watching multiple cams if i want to and multiple people can watch me. It keeps me from being obligated to talk sexually to turn one person on and have them enter a dialogue with me. I prefer it to be strictly visual and creative. I don't cam to get turned on because it really doesn't turn me on the way it did when i first came to lpsg.

    I enjoy the camming experience when it comes to being creative and i'd love to have a dance pole in my house so i could get really good at that. But i really couldn't do the same thing one on one. I don't even dance like i do on cam for my husband because its awkward in a one-on-one sense.

    That awkward feeling you are talking about is exactly what i get if i ever cammed on Yahoo/MSN messenger with someone. I always tell them i'd prefer to stay in the chatroom and not be isolated on cam. It just makes me feel cornered and like i said- obligated to keep doing things just for them that turns them on. I do easier cranking out the standard cookie cutter stuff without having to sex talk. I don't even sex talk with my husband, nor does he with me, so i get incredibly uncomfortable when someone wants me to do that. I usually fade out in conversation.

    And nothing makes me more uncomfortable than an extremely sexually aggressive male that doesn't know me or my likes to try to turn me on with violent fantasies. I think thats something that requires more trust to even enjoy.

    But to each their own. You are not alone in that. I burn about 500 calories when i do my dancing on cam, it helps me get better at it and its great exercise. Gets my heart rate going and i break a sweat even if i don't get turned on. Keeps me from sitting on my ass during that time.
     
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    I don't see anything wrong or evil about camming, but it is much less satisfying than being with a real live person with whom you have some sort of relationship.
     
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    I hardly do it...just not into it!
    But I like camming, just not sex camming!
     
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