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So, I've done somethings I never imagined doing. I posted a personal ad on craigslist:

First timer. - m4w

I just posted my verification pics today here at lpsg

Yes, i'm still a virgin. I wanted to loose it in marriage, but I'm far away from that. Anyhow, that's not my point.

I've gotten reply's that have not gotten anywhere.

Women, how do you feel about sexual postings like this?

I've come to realize that there's a lot of BS and spam with CL.

I'm supposed to go on a "blind date" (not really, I have been introduced to a very beautiful girl (via text + email) this weekend (out of town). I would really like to loose my virginity to this girl since I've heard many good things about her and she's beautiful. I cannot assume anything at this point.

My plan is that if we don't go back to my hotel. I can post another ad on CL in the city where I'm staying, but I'm not sure I'll achieve anything.

Women:

Is it hard to believe in postings like this? Even if you wouldn't believe in it, would you still respond to "hook up"?

Do you look for ads on CL like us men do?

What's up with more women posting pictures in W4W than in W4M?

Do you think I should post here?


Please give me your thoughts.

Thanks.
 

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I've never remotely considered being involved with Craigslist ads, and my instinct is to advise you to do the same. Everything about it sounds sketchy.
 

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I've come to learn that. And by your user name I bet you're a cautious girl all around. What about the rest of what I posted?
 

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Hey, if you're a guy and have some advice please send me a private mssg, since only women can reply.

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I would never think about looking on Craigslist for casual sex. It's inconceivable to me.

My friend Meg loves to read them aloud to me, and I hate to say it but we laugh a lot.
 

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unless i wanted to commit suicide by serial rapist/murderer i would never respond to a craig's list personal/booty call ad.

OkCupid, not a direct hook-up site, by design or by usage.
in my random perving in new cities days i met heaps of awesome folks and ended up nekkid with a few of them.
 

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agree with above posters about no to casual sex, sex add's and etc ...

plus.. myself not attracted to virgin men (young men) and situations like that huge turn off to me.
 

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Why would you want to LOSE (not loose) your virginity to a complete stranger? Is it that important to you to fuck someone ??

I've tried having relationships, but they have gone sour. Honestly I probably have only been emotionally attached to 3 or 4 girls (to which I would have lost my virginity).

I had 2 or 3 chances when I was younger, but I decided to wait because I didn't have an emotional bond with these girls.

I have been so disappointed that now I'm just like "screw it."

At my age and with my average looks (or so I've been told), I'm embarrased to meet a girl and tell her that I'm a virgin.

It pretty much now comes down to this: I sleep with you because I love you or sleep with you because you're hot.

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agree with above posters about no to casual sex, sex add's and etc ...

plus.. myself not attracted to virgin men (young men) and situations like that huge turn off to me.

That's exactly my point. You said it your self, to a lot of women virgin men are not attractive, yet to many men they fantasize about being a girl's first.

I don't want to get the change to have sex with someone and then we don't/or she's disappointed, because she finds out (by me telling her or my performance).

Thanks for your reply.
 

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have you thought about re-working your ad?

cuz, as it reads now like girl-away spray.

ya don't offer up much about who you are. ya know, giving her a reason to think 'my, fucking this lad might be a good idea' is all 'if i don't stick my dick into someone i am pretty sure i'm going to die'

and for true, just coming out and saying 'if i don't stick my dick into someone i am pretty sure i'm going to die' is at least sorta funny and will make this possible-her laugh.

if ya want the CL hook-up, or ya see a CL hook-up as your only option ya need to sell it, bro. sell yaself, like everything else is sold on CL. hype the positives, my friend.

*cracks self-up* sell ya virginity..
For Sale: One Male Virginity.
Cost: Free to a good home.
You Will Receive: One Male Virginity. Endless appreciation. That warm fuzzy feeling you get from doing in a good deed.
 

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have you thought about re-working your ad?

cuz, as it reads now like girl-away spray.

ya don't offer up much about who you are. ya know, giving her a reason to think 'my, fucking this lad might be a good idea' is all 'if i don't stick my dick into someone i am pretty sure i'm going to die'

and for true, just coming out and saying 'if i don't stick my dick into someone i am pretty sure i'm going to die' is at least sorta funny and will make this possible-her laugh.

if ya want the CL hook-up, or ya see a CL hook-up as your only option ya need to sell it, bro. sell yaself, like everything else is sold on CL. hype the positives, my friend.

*cracks self-up* sell ya virginity..
For Sale: One Male Virginity.
Cost: Free to a good home.
You Will Receive: One Male Virginity. Endless appreciation. That warm fuzzy feeling you get from doing in a good deed.
You're right. I was just told that I wasn't hung and was questioned about my presence in this website (sorry, don't mean to point fingers).

I'm not sure if being hung would make a difference. I saw other ads to get an idea on CL (m4w) and realized that these other "hung guys" weren't having a lot of luck either.

I'll try to work on it. I'll probably end up posting something new in the city we're I'll be this weekend which will be in Ventura, CA.
 

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there are heaps of ladies out there into the Mrs. Robinson thing... ya just might not find those ladies here.

LPSG attracts the megaladon of females. we're mouthy, fanged, kinda opinionated and don't always deliver our own personal truths with a ego-sparring cushion. *fuck, i love the womangs here :biglaugh:

so.. the Mrs. Robinson thing. this group of ladies won't mind, and would in fact be turned on by, ya lack of experience. they see ya babe-in-the-booty-woodsness as a chance to

1.) blow ya mind sexually. all those moves other folks are all dismissive about, ya gonna be "WOW! can we do that again" the enthusiasm can't be beat.

2.) there are no bad habits to break. ya might have a few porn-fed wobbles, but for the most part she's got free reign to guide ya and shape ya love down style. heaps of women will see that opportunity as too good to pass up.

3.) don't be hung up on whether you are hung or not. this is LPSG. remember what i said about apex predator? :tongue1::wink: so long as you use what ya got with the purpose of mutual pleasure and satisfaction, ya can't go wrong.

4.) another site.. an alt sex site might prove better hunting ground. there will womangs, mostly Domme/Top ladies who are interested in ya as yet unspoiled flesh :naughty:

for true.. experienced or no, hung or not, women LOVE confidence and self acceptance. be okay with who you and they will be okay with you. ya got nothing to be ashamed of. ya held off on sex wanting to share something with someone you really love. that didn't happen, and as ya grew up ya feelings about virginity and sex changed *shrug* that's all.

is it typical of men ya age? in most western cultures? nope.
is not the same as being infested with loser. :smile:

eta: apologies for long ass posts.
to ya and the board.
i am mad rambley today :redface:
 
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Thanks. First time posting here and I've already talked to a few very good girls (some have sent private mssgs, Thanks!). I've been a member for a few months now and I have learned a lot from reading posts.
 

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That's exactly my point. You said it your self, to a lot of women virgin men are not attractive, yet to many men they fantasize about being a girl's first.

I don't want to get the change to have sex with someone and then we don't/or she's disappointed, because she finds out (by me telling her or my performance).

Thanks for your reply.

No problem.

I guess there are some females that enjoy being the first...why don't you go to a "cougar site" or something? I guess among some "cougar women" there are some who enjoy being an initiator...

Good luck.
 

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No problem.

I guess there are some females that enjoy being the first...why don't you go to a "cougar site" or something? I guess among some "cougar women" there are some who enjoy being an initiator...

Good luck.


Thanks.

I just remembered that the majority of the kids that lost their virginity lost it to a girl that was hammered and/or had fame for sleeping around.
 

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Thanks.

I just remembered that the majority of the kids that lost their virginity lost it to a girl that was hammered and/or had fame for sleeping around.


I would not want to lose my virginity with a guy with soooo many mileages like that..I would prefer experience from older person over promiscuity from a peer person..oh well.. I am OCD and this situation turns me off big time anyways.. one way or the other..I do not like it.

You are the one planning "your thing"..good luck.
 

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My mind is closed to the idea of hooking up via CL. If I try to keep an open mind about it, your ad sucks. You sound weird and desperate. I'm not saying you are, mind you, but that's how your ad reads. Your picture is boring. Do not take that to mean I find your body boring; you have a really nice ass. What about your face? Here's the craziest part: you want me to have passionate sex with you, but you don't want to tell me anything about yourself or befriend me, and you'd like me to bring another girl with me? You sound like you are strange, desperate, and don't even know what you want. The ad is a complete turn-off.

Are you totally opposed to making no strings sexual friendships? I have made quite a few of those on okcupid. Try there. I wouldn't ever meet anyone from CL for sex. One friend of mine did, and years, name/address changes later, she is still being stalked.