i'm for it but the wife won't touch it. she has not issues fucking other people but letting other people into our personal life is a big no-no for her. for her, she's too jealous and not willing to share my connection with her. yea, we fuck other people but she knows that i will always be there for her and i only love her... this deep personal connection is not something she can share. i can understand where she's coming from and respect that.
i, on the other hand, have no issues connecting with more than one person assuming the other person can do it as well. it's gotta come full circle or forget it. it's unfortunate that a lot of people in this community try to go poly for the wrong reasons (financial gain, sexual explorations, etc.). as
@bucknaked9 said, it's very HARD. if it was easy, more people would be doing it.
when i speak with my buddies about it, i always make the same joke over and over: "you want to have 2 wives? goodness, i can barely deal with 1 and you want 2!?"... haha... most people only see the positive side of poly and the benefits but they don't realize that the bad comes with it too... and don't even get me started on MMF vs MFF dynamics.