Thoughts On ''romantic'' Sex?

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What would u guys think about a guy/your boyfriend that invites you to his home at night and he has candles all over room that make the room smell very nice, sexy songs in the background, nice comfortable, cozy, full of pillows place to fuck etc? Is it too extra or would u be down for that and appreciate that?

I know that a lot of guys no matter straight gay or bi like having sex in weird and gross places so I'm curious what you think about sex that is kinda like a ritual of love or something lol
 
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What would u guys think about a guy/your boyfriend that invites you to his home at night and he has candles all over room that make the room smell very nice, sexy songs in the background, nice comfortable, cozy, full of pillows place to fuck etc? Is it too extra or would u be down for that and appreciate that?

I know that a lot of guys no matter straight gay or bi like having sex in weird and gross places so I'm curious what you think about sex that is kinda like a ritual of love or something lol

I'll be right over tonight. How's 8 PM?
 

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This is honestly the kind of sex I prefer but this isn’t the standard for hook ups lol
I agree on both counts. As for why a hook-up would never pan out that way (unless it was specifically talked about beforehand)..the vibe for that degree of romantic encounter isn't there. Hook-ups are with random strangers, or even a fuck bud, without any emotional engagement outside of some quick sexual fun.

I couldn't even imagine what I would feel if I arranged for a Grindr meeting, and walked into a dinner/music/romantic ambiance scenario. I guess it would depend on the person I was meeting, and how much time I had. But in reality, it would just be a bit overboard and really make me wonder what I had just stepped into.

I'd probably excuse myself.

Outside of that, in a real relationship, why wouldn't you have intimate dinners? It's all part and parcel of getting to know each other and falling in love, and/or romantic things you do for each other just because, or on special occasions. Granted, not everyone does that sort of thing, but I would hazard a guess that most people do a dinner to impress someone they really like. It's normal.
 
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i agree with others about hookups - a bit weird !!

but my boyfriend does do stuff like this and i love it - it shows he's thought about the evening and our time together. In a relationship anything one does for the other to show that they're appreciated and not being taken for granted must be good? And the receiver should accept it for what it is, even if not quite their 'scene'.

That doesn't mean in a relationship you can't also do what you describe as the gross stuff, if thats what you're both into, or just have great sex without all the frills.

So yeah i love whenever my guy does anything special for me and this particular scenario of being 'romanced' i love and enjoy.
 
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If it is a boyfriend, husband, long-term companion, etc., then I would be all for it. Sex comes in many forms, conditions and flavors, enjoy them all.

If it was a one-time hookup, I would nope my way out the door. I will reserve the more intimate sex with my partner.
 

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^Yeah, I'm with that guy.

Romantic sex is great when the romantic connection is all ready there.

Otherwise, let's just fuck.

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But if you DO want to make it romantic for me, gotta say I'm a nature guy. Take me camping. Let's do it by the stream.