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Hi,

First off I decided to put this in the Ask a man section because I thought only a guy could answer it.
I have been camming on cam4 for a while now, first I used to do it for the tokens, now I just do it for fun... I even c2c with guys at times, and here goes my question whenever I cam with some random guy, I'll start the video conversation but then immediately put on a porno (possibly with some gifted and talented :tongue: actress like Bailey Blue) in order to keep up an erection. Now the thing is I do like the attention and only glance at the guy's private parts once or twice, but that's just it....

Please tell me I'm not weird.
 

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Hmm. . well. . I am both a (man) and (gay). . But, I will offer up an answer.

Everyone wants to feel like they belong. . but, at times I think too often that as men, we place too much self-validation, on the opinions about what other men think of us. Does it matter if you do look at another man's junk (if even at a glance here and there?). . Does it make you any less of a man if you do so?? So what, if other people take issue, with what you do. . that's their baggage not yours.

Do what you do, be true to yourself, and harm none.

One of the things I have learned from BDSM - Leather community, is that our (masculinity) is not determined in the eyes of others. In other words, I have no need to (prove) anything to any other man. I only have to Prove things to myself.

Keep doing what you do.

Mr. Slave.
 

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Hi,

First off I decided to put this in the Ask a man section because I thought only a guy could answer it.
I have been camming on cam4 for a while now, first I used to do it for the tokens, now I just do it for fun... I even c2c with guys at times, and here goes my question whenever I cam with some random guy, I'll start the video conversation but then immediately put on a porno (possibly with some gifted and talented :tongue: actress like Bailey Blue) in order to keep up an erection. Now the thing is I do like the attention and only glance at the guy's private parts once or twice, but that's just it....

Please tell me I'm not weird.

If you like it and feel comfortable doing it, then keep right on. No need to concern yourself with labels such as gay or straight.

Denying to yourself that you enjoy getting attention from men on cam won't make it less of a reality.

So no, you're not weird. Nothing is weird. You have exhibitionistic tendencies. Many people have. It's not one ounce weirder than me not having those tendencies.

As long as you don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable and as long as you're not hurting anyone, just keep going. It won't make more and it won't make you less straight.
 

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The thing is I enjoy the fact that I'm camming with someone, since no matter how hard I try no actual girl seems to be wanting to do that with me (simply because most of the girls on cam4 watching guys are actually men and when approached for a c2c just say they are not interested, wow that was a long parenthesis).
So I started getting asked to cam by guys and started saying yes, but every single time I'll put on a porno (mostly mff) and play it fullscreen whilst doing that because otherwise I'll lose my boner. Sometimes I even cut it short, but I like the thrill of doing something that I find a taboo, yet it's just the fantasy because I don't when it turns into a reality....

Just want to know if anyone ever went through this... I've even gay porn a try but I just don't really find it, shall we say, appealing.... I don't even get hard watching other guys while they are doing all sorts of things (actually whenever I see something I could see myself do I note it down :p for future reference), but when I am the one on cam and start getting compliments (like most of the guys on here I'm fairly well-endowed) I can't help but take a look and sometimes even start camming with the guy because he says I'm so hot and really wants me, but then once we start camming I lose my boner, but yet the attention feels sooooo good but when I see who the one giving me the attention is it just goes ..... down

I am not scared by labels.... just wanna know if anyone's ever been through this....