Disclaimer: I have already asked/spoken to my wife on the matter..and all I get is usually a bunch of blushing and "I don't knows" so I'm hoping to just pick some other ladies' brains to maybe get some insight.
What could possibly be the motivation to express a desire for, or even act in a way to facilitate inviting another woman to have sex with us, only to have extreme paranoia I may be conversing with said woman after fact, without my wife?
I mean like most red blooded hetero men, sex with more than woman at a time is definitely bucket list material, and even beyond sex, I could see how adding a "sister wife"(maybe we'll just say gf) would actually work really well for our relationship. But also like most men, I know little to no good will ever stem from me making such a suggestion, so I opt instead to have it be a conclusion my wife comes to on her own, that I will support.
But its always the same, sober or intoxicated; she starts out crushing on the girl wanting to be around her..insisting the girl meet me and seeing if she finds me attractive..talkkng avout how much fun the experience will be, only to invariably flake out then spend the next few days paranoid im going to reach out to the girl, or that she is going to try to reach out to me.
Just from my perspective, would it be healthier to just shoot down any talks or actions that seem to set up a menage situation, or should I just let her explore her bisexual urges and benefit from them if applicable?
What could possibly be the motivation to express a desire for, or even act in a way to facilitate inviting another woman to have sex with us, only to have extreme paranoia I may be conversing with said woman after fact, without my wife?
I mean like most red blooded hetero men, sex with more than woman at a time is definitely bucket list material, and even beyond sex, I could see how adding a "sister wife"(maybe we'll just say gf) would actually work really well for our relationship. But also like most men, I know little to no good will ever stem from me making such a suggestion, so I opt instead to have it be a conclusion my wife comes to on her own, that I will support.
But its always the same, sober or intoxicated; she starts out crushing on the girl wanting to be around her..insisting the girl meet me and seeing if she finds me attractive..talkkng avout how much fun the experience will be, only to invariably flake out then spend the next few days paranoid im going to reach out to the girl, or that she is going to try to reach out to me.
Just from my perspective, would it be healthier to just shoot down any talks or actions that seem to set up a menage situation, or should I just let her explore her bisexual urges and benefit from them if applicable?