Threesome with a friend!

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Hard4you83, Feb 6, 2009.

  1. Hard4you83

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    Talk about theesomes came up tonight in casual conversation with a couple friends of mine. of course the two girls one guy and then the two guys one girl... Well my bestfriend said that if he ever had a threesome where two guys and a girl were involved he would want the other guy to be me cus he trusts me. My friend is straight as far as I know and I am bi but he doesn't know that... should I take this as somekind of a hint?

    Oh and what are your thoughts... would you have a threesome where two guys are involved? If so would you rather it be a guy you are really close with or one you don't even know?

    thoughts and comments please!
     
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    That sounds like a big hint my friend. I would do it only because I'm a perv and most of my straight male friends are HOT. I guess the trust comes into play to keep it a secret. He probably feels comfortable with you and knows you won't tell the world what happened. For a straight guy, that can be pretty taboo.
     
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    Funny, because the time I had a 3-some the other guy was my best friend. We both knew the girl too, in fact it was her idea. No, we're not all cousins and don't live in Kentucky (I watch Jerry Springer too much). it was weird because I'd never seen my friend erect before and he was huge. It was a fun night but never repeated. Don't think I'd do it with an anonymous/unknown male.
     
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    I'd keep a 'no-touch' policy and he probably feels safer doing it with someone he knows than a complete stranger don't think it's a hint.
     
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    thanks for the input guys... keep it cumming
     
  6. got_lost

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    I don't think it's a hint either.

    Especially if he doesn't know you're bi.

    It's a trust thing and he'd feel safe with you, probably because he knows you wouldn't touch him.
     
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    true I wouldn't touch him... I do think he is attractive though and I would love to know what he is packing
     
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    I don't think it's a hint. At all. He said it himself, he trusts you.

    It only means that he wouldn't be comfortable being naked and having sex around a random guy.
     
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    I think your friend wants you to suck his cock, and he wants to suck yours.
     
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    One time i had it with a French married couple. That was with the lights off. The husband grabbed my package several times. Of course his wife didn't see it. he was pretending he did it by misake but I am sure he wanted it.
     
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    Yes, I would, and in fact have many times. And generally I do prefer that the third in the triad with my wife be a guy we feel really close to.
     
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    I wouldn't read too much into it. He trusts you as opposed to a threesome involving some random putz he's never met. Trying to infer too much will only lead to disappointment.

    I wouldn't mind a threesome involving two guys, it's not such a stretch since I've done something similar. Nor is it a stretch to do so with complete strangers either. I think more fun and comfortability can be had with someone you know, though.

    I think I'd enjoy having a colleague present, but not someone I know too terriblywell, that would just be awkward.
     
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    Funny enough, I would prefer a threesome with me, a guy and a girl. Simple reason, I don't think I can manage to satisfy two girls at the same time lol. I don't know. And also I like seeing people having a fuck and enjoy it, so it would be nice to see too.
     
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    I started having 3x back in college, when I was 19. Most were MFM, with just a few FMF. After college, when I started doing a lot of business travel and was spending evenings in hotel bars, I started having lots and lots of MFM fun. Amazing how many middle-aged husbands want to see wifey handle a really hung younger man.

    My experience is that if it's your first MFM and it's your wife/gf who is supplying the pussy, then you're better off if the second cock belongs to someone you DON'T know.

    Because if things don't go the way you fantasized, you never have to see the guy again.

    In one MFM 3x, hubby started sobbing as my cock first slid into wifey. It turns out, the fantasy was a lot more exciting than the reality of seeing his wife fuck another man.

    On the other hand, if you meet a girl in a bar and she's up for a 3x (and lots of girls think MFM fun is the hottest sex around), then by all means have your friend be the second cock.

    It's kinda cool seeing what your best friend is really like in bed (as opposed to what he's been telling you all these years).
     
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    I would be totally down. I have chatted drunkenly with a friend once regarding him wanting me to join him and his girlfriend. I would suggest get everyone involved drunk. Actually that's a bad idea because I am still waiting for it to happen lol.
     
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    only way i would have a 3some is with 2 girls and myself.
    i might take a 3some with another dude if the girl was a stranger to me.
    i like more vagina than penis...i guess i am wierd.

    almost every friend i have thinks about 2 dudes and a girl.
    what is it?

    same with porn,you see more MMF than FFM.
    men like fucking women with other men apparently.
     
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    I think threesomes are hot. I would honestly prefer to have a friend that I know compared to a stranger. If it were a close guy-friend it's easier since you two know each other and are comfortable around each other.
     
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    I second auto90403! In a MFM, if the girl is your gf/wife, go for someone you don't know or someone you are not likely to meet often (I did that twice and am happy the guy was not a close friend of mine).

    Looks like you are more interested in your friend than the 3some, try hinting about you being bi and check his reaction.
     
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    I would say almost a third of the sex I had in High School was MMF. Two of my good friends and I would regularly take a girl out for a three way. There was never any guy/guy action and the thought never crossed my mind.

    I've never had a three way with a stranger before but I think it would not be as much fun. There is some sort of bonding that occurs and that would be missed with a stranger. Although, it does sound fun to do MMF with a married/dating couple. I feel like there needs to be some level of personal connection rather than a pile of flesh...
     
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    Me and my gf have had several threesomes with one of her girl friends. It was really fun and as they are both a bit bi I enjoyed watching them with each other just as much as they enjoyed the girl on girl action. I think getting a bj from 2 girls at the same time is one of the best feelings and visuals in the world. The only rule was I couldnt have sex with the friend. I think that was a good rule to have because problems could have arisen in the relationship between the gf and I if I did fuck the best friend.
     
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