Well we are members off aff so there are guys on there, we have done the cam play , but do we go to next level.How to do FIND a guy with a huge cock just out of the blue ??
I don't think you'd want to get involved with someone you already know.
I think it's something you both need to sit down and discuss pro's vs con's.My Wife and I are thinking about asking a male to join us, she tried a guy with a very large cock when she was younger , but could not take him, she now want to try again with me and a larger guy. Is this a good idea. She loves my cock 7 x 5.8 but wants to try thicker?
Thanks nice comments, we have talked about it and seem comftable with the idea, we where both very active before we married and both love each other an we no thats forever, we have both done this before but not with a partner. Maybe you are right try it and see what happens, my wife has offered the same in reverse mff. Which to do first.I think it's something you both need to sit down and discuss pro's vs con's.
If you decide yes, you should set up boundries such as, you are always present and she is not screwing him when your not around. Will you like watching someone else screw her? Those sorts of things.
If your pro's outweigh the cons, try it once and see if you both have your expectations met out of the expierence.
Personally, I don't think it is something I could do with my significant other. I'm not one to share or be shared sexually.
Thanks Holly gives us something to think about.Every time I see a post (on any of the sites I belong to) in which a couple is asking for advice on whether to have a threesome, it gives me pause.
Having a threesome is a big step if you haven't done it before, and as others have mentioned, there is potential for jealousy and other problems in some people.
I'm starting to think that if you're at the stage where you're still questioning it (i.e. asking for advice here), then the answer is "no." I suspect that when the time comes, you'll be sure.
Artful and I have talked about having threesomes in the future (more likely FMF than MMF) but we know we aren't ready yet.
One person gave me a very good piece of advice once, which has served me well many times (when I've remembered to follow it). It is: "When in doubt, DON'T."
Once all trace of doubt goes away, you can always go ahead and do it. But if you have doubts, and you do it, you can't take it back.
Be sure -- but if and when you become sure -- have a blast. :biggrin1: