Threesome...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by me789, Nov 18, 2009.

  1. me789

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    Hi I was with my friend last weekend and he was with his girlfriend. We were taking a beer and we always do jokes. Since like 3 weeks, I am always kidding him and her that i'd like to watch them having sex or do a threesome with them. This weekend weekend, when i said that my friend said in a kind of joke but seem serious that he was really open and his girlfriend don't seem to be against the idea. By the way she really like me. And now, since two week, when everybody go back to home after a beer, my friend always said « So are you coming home tonight ». More I think of it and more I think that I would like to have or watch them having sex but I can't tell if they are really open to it. I don't know too how to approach them more seriously with that idea. Also, im scared to scrap the really good relashion that we all have. I'm scared that after doing or watching them having sex, their couple get wrong and i'm scared to loose a good friend.

    Can someone help me to my goal or wath you think of this or what i should do.

    Thanks
     
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    if they've asked you, just do it!
     
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    He's offered in a joking way so if YOU'RE offended, he can pass it off as a joke.

    Next time he says it, say, "Yes, let's go".
     
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    hey bud,...try this, go home with them,get naked with them,jump in bed and let them have sex with you....i suspect they have discussed and are willing to open thier bedroom and thier sex lives to you, enjoy it for what it is, just physical enjoyment, over thinking the event can ruin it....go with it.
     
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    i agree that Overthinking will ruin it...but it is very good for you all to think about it.

    to just blindly jump in can create traumatic drama.

    is this a one time thing or a poly thing?
    do you "love" them or just "her" or just "him"?
    could you bear being the father of her child?

    are they just trying to get jealous sex?
    is it a cuckhold thingamabobber?
    could you bear to look at her face, after you cum knowing she is not
    with you and will not be with you and still feel respect?

    i personally would not do it unless it was a "poly" situation,
    where it is a "relationship" and you continue to be with eachother.

    otherwise it is just a cheap thrill to me,
    and if that is what i want,
    then i just suck the gas
    from a Rediwhip can.:smile:
     
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    Maybe a one time or poly
    I appreciate them, they are good friend
    I will do everything to not get her pregnant and if they want child, i think it should be a child of them

    I don't think so
    Dont understand this :p
    Sure, im not in love with her
     
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    Here's how you do this:

    Call your buddy and talk to him 1 on 1. Be clear about your thoughts. Get your answer.
     
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    Right now everything is cool and jokes have been made.

    Take the next step, and anything could happen; good or bad.

    If something bad happens, could you live with that?
    Would you risk the relationship your currently have with them?

    If the answer is "yes", then do what you want. But live with the consequences and know that you made that choice.

    And dont come back here and whine about it if it goes bad!!!
     
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