Yes it matters.
Make sure his dick aint no eye candy, lol!
Which bitch are you referring to here?
http://www.lpsg.org/2554420-post1.html
Threesome's to explore or play it safe? 1 guy 2 girl and 2 guy 1 girl..
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Yes it matters.
Make sure his dick aint no eye candy, lol!
Which bitch are you referring to here?
http://www.lpsg.org/2554420-post1.html
Curious whether the original poster ever had any 3somes with his girlfriend, and also wanted to respond to some of the comments on here that alot of people just seem to assume the worst possible scenarios
Sex, while awesome, fun & great, is still just sex. If someone leaves you just because they experience a better lover than you, were they really worth being in a long-term relationship with anyways!?
Sex, while awesome, fun & great, is still just sex. If someone leaves you just because they experience a better lover than you, were they really worth being in a long-term relationship with anyways!?
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Through my experience most swingers espically youngers ones seperate. I agree with one post that a first try should be a foursome [ mfmf ] which would provide many different scenes and all is equal. Start out with baby steps [massages to erotic massages], then discuss things and make sure your both ready to explore your fantasies. If trust isn't there your heading down the wrong street. If jealousy is there, again heading the wrong direction. If you have a secure relationship then you can just enjoy the sex fulfilling your fantasies. If this doesn't bring you closer together, then stop and enjoy the experience.
If her bi nature is something she wants/needs to complete her sexual nature then she shouldn't be jealous that your involved and please don't use the word bitch or throw anyone out. Escorting them home would be the mannerly thing to do, after all you would only be using her for sex.
If her bi nature is something she wants/needs to complete her sexual nature then she shouldn't be jealous that your involved and please don't use the word bitch or throw anyone out. Escorting them home would be the mannerly thing to do, after all you would only be using her for sex.
Bad idea unless you are both comfortable with everything the other person values in the relatioship and agree on all what activites are allowed and not allowed. i love 3somes. i love orgies. i love sharing. being in that type or relationship is eyeopeneing and great, but its a narrow line. and nobody i know have walked it without fucking up. (not say it cant be done, but it takes a very mature set of people who are at the same stage sexually, mentally, and emotionally.)
then there are the power issues. 3somes are rarely equal. Both of you have to be ok with starting as a team and one accidently getting left behind or left out.
If there has to be rule setting or compromises against key desires, really dont do it. example= telling a person who loves to suck "no lips below the shoulders" is bullshit and meant to fail. If youre that uncomfortable, dont bother. you will lose.
why...
lots of people get carried away or drunk or mad or stupid or jealous. and rules get broken.
i went through the exact same situation as you. I love women, am much more physically responcive to women, but i love to be fucked with real dick and wanted a male spare to switch out with a female.
the female spare was wonderful. i got to pick and i landed a hotti with personality and passion. the male.... never really happened.
to make a long story short, i felt used. everytime i would hook up with the girl the feeling got worse. then i felt cheated because he could be hers, but i could only be his.
it sucked ass major.
So unless your standards in the relationship match exactly, dont do it. avoiding bad spares is only half the problem. the other half is protecting the santitiy in your relationship.
then there are the power issues. 3somes are rarely equal. Both of you have to be ok with starting as a team and one accidently getting left behind or left out.
If there has to be rule setting or compromises against key desires, really dont do it. example= telling a person who loves to suck "no lips below the shoulders" is bullshit and meant to fail. If youre that uncomfortable, dont bother. you will lose.
why...
lots of people get carried away or drunk or mad or stupid or jealous. and rules get broken.
i went through the exact same situation as you. I love women, am much more physically responcive to women, but i love to be fucked with real dick and wanted a male spare to switch out with a female.
the female spare was wonderful. i got to pick and i landed a hotti with personality and passion. the male.... never really happened.
to make a long story short, i felt used. everytime i would hook up with the girl the feeling got worse. then i felt cheated because he could be hers, but i could only be his.
it sucked ass major.
So unless your standards in the relationship match exactly, dont do it. avoiding bad spares is only half the problem. the other half is protecting the santitiy in your relationship.
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I have only done mmf with girls we picked up (my m8 was also bi). Don't think I would want do it it with somebody I was in a serious relationship.
Think carefully.
Having said that, it was amazingly horny (and fun).
Think carefully.
Having said that, it was amazingly horny (and fun).
It all depends on the couple's relationship and how they perceive the extra sexual encounters they normally fantasize about.
Although 3somes are fantastic if you know what you are doing and most important where you going with it. If your (both) intentions are purely sexual and you trust each other and most important is the third person you do it with which he/she can make it enjoyable or very regrettable and the emotional effect of the whole thing.
I enjoy it with my husband and another man, never tried with another woman so I couldn't comment on the FMF part.
Although 3somes are fantastic if you know what you are doing and most important where you going with it. If your (both) intentions are purely sexual and you trust each other and most important is the third person you do it with which he/she can make it enjoyable or very regrettable and the emotional effect of the whole thing.
I enjoy it with my husband and another man, never tried with another woman so I couldn't comment on the FMF part.
If she's your GF and you're serious with her, you might want to reconsider. If you're 100% okay with her fucking another guy in front of you though, then go for it. But I would personally only do this with 2 people who didn't mean that much to me (and this is one of my greatest fantasies believe it or not). It's complicated when it comes to relationships because it is a risk and it could end up badly.
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