Throated and spitting?

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  1. ta4me

    ta4me New Member

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    Really? Really? Do women actually enjoy being throated so deep that they come up gasping for air and spitting that thick gooey phlegm all over?
    Don't get me wrong, nasty sloppy bj's are a huge turn on.
    But do women really enjoy it?
    If you do, does that make you a sub?
     
  2. B_Hickboy

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    If you see it, you have to believe it! I can't picture myself hating anyone enough to want to make her come up puking. Well, Rachael Ray, maybe. But still, it just looks like extreme abuse.
     
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    I can't speak for all women, but it's a definite HELL NO for me. It's a turn off and any man who jams his dick that far down my throat to make me do that does NOT respect me or my boundaries and will likely find himself missing his most valuable appendage.
     
  4. Sitronmelde

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    Porn isn't reality? Wha'?

    Once, I was so very enamoured by the beauty of Tera Patrick, but then I saw her in a DVD getting choked by her partner, his fingers clutching her throat. After seeing that, I realized the industry is trying to please a bunch of sick'ohz.
     
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    do guys really enjoy this?!
     
  6. The Dragon

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    Yes there are men and yes, women who enjoy this.

    The ones I've encountered have been mainly in the D&s scene and it's been consensual.
    Different strokes for different folks.
     
  7. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I personally don't mind going out on a limb to please my partner with extreme stuff....but my need for air is so important that I can't truly enjoy it even in a submissive fashion. But then again his cock comes no where near my throat to be considered deep throat, but I still panic under the conditions of not being able to breathe.
     
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    I enjoy it very much i like to be pushed to my limits and i enjoy being dominated. it isn't for everyone and it should never be forced on anyone.
     
  9. dolfette

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    shove my head down so far that i can't breathe and i will use my teeth. imo, it's justifiable self defence to draw blood.
     
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    lol dolfette. it definetly is an act that should be discussed before hand and boundaries and safe words set.
     
  11. nicenycdick

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    While I'm not making any judgments about what others might enjoy, I've never really gotten that whole supremely sloppy thing. I don't mind lubrication, but I can't imagine enjoying someone's bile all over my cock. And the thought that a woman was choking as she was pleasing me does nothing for me.

    To each his/her own...
     
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    I wouldn't enjoy it. I've accidentally gagged myself trying to do a good job, but it wasn't a sensation I enjoyed or intentionally repeated. I've never been with a man who attempted to do that with me, so it's never come up, but if a guy tried it without warning, I would react very angrily. It's not a good idea to do something like that when a woman has your balls in her hand.

    That kind of porn fetishizes making women suffer. I agree with Sitronmelde and I wonder how profitable it is...
     
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    I'm a sub, and I hate it with a passion.

    I have attempted it several times, I don't like it, I don't like the feeling, and apparently my non-verbal attempts at getting my point across aren't all that appreciated either!
     
  14. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Thank you so much for that. I needed the giggle. My inner physician came out to say FINALLY someone gets it.
     
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    I'm mostly submissive and I don't enjoy gagging.. I can deep throat, but you better believe if I'm sucking someone's cock and they shove it down my throat without asking, that my response wouldn't be very nice. I have to be in control when I deep throat a dick or else it could end up rather gross :p I had a couple embarrassing times when I was learning how to deep throat. I think the mass of saliva is gross, but it does seem that giving a good blow job IS messy.
     
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    I love having my mans cock shoved so far into my throat that i gag. I try not to eat for at least 12 hours earlier so that i dont vomit chunks. It makes my eyes water and i cry. It is a great ecperience. I keep a towel next to the bed when my man comes over now. I like being 100% submissive.
     
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    I love doing this, but it's got more to do with me being competitive (even with myself!) than with me being a sub.
     
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    I have done it with a former girlfriend. She loved it and because she did, it was hot. Never did it with any other. I dont need to do it, but when it is with someone who actually gets turned on from it. It's hot. She also likes the whole hair pulling face slapping gig. Lets say we were maybe losing steam, I'd give a slap or two and she would be orgasming in less then one minute. I'm not a very Dom guy but with her I was.
     
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