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Two weeks ago, I met someone that came into my life like a tornado. Very fast and furious, professing strong feelings towards me. There were tears of love from him as he told me how he felt.
I had not been with anyone in 8 years, after a long relationship ended. I was swept away, bringing up in myself feelings that I have not felt in a long time. My head was swimming. You know how it feels when a new relationship begins.
So one night we were having a candlelight dinner. The next night I went over there and he was a different person. No emotions, no feelings towards me, nothing. He said he could not be anything but a friend to me. I was numb. My feelings were still racing.
How can someone change so fast? I don't get it. I, of course am hurt, but have forgiven him and am moving on.
People should not treat another human like this. Most of us are very fragile when it comes to our hearts.
This makes me want to hide for another 8 years or longer, even though I feel like I have so much love that I would like to share with someone. I'm not a spring chicken, and don't want to spend my life alone, but shit like this scares me away from ever trying again.
What do I do?
I had not been with anyone in 8 years, after a long relationship ended. I was swept away, bringing up in myself feelings that I have not felt in a long time. My head was swimming. You know how it feels when a new relationship begins.
So one night we were having a candlelight dinner. The next night I went over there and he was a different person. No emotions, no feelings towards me, nothing. He said he could not be anything but a friend to me. I was numb. My feelings were still racing.
How can someone change so fast? I don't get it. I, of course am hurt, but have forgiven him and am moving on.
People should not treat another human like this. Most of us are very fragile when it comes to our hearts.
This makes me want to hide for another 8 years or longer, even though I feel like I have so much love that I would like to share with someone. I'm not a spring chicken, and don't want to spend my life alone, but shit like this scares me away from ever trying again.
What do I do?