I have been dating my current gf for a while and i am her first guy; however, everytime we have sex its almost as if it was her first time...is she ever gonna get a little more loose...has anyone encountered a similar situation?
yes, my last gf didnt have sex with me and not feel pain for like the first year. my current gf got use to my size and enjoys it a lot, but also seems like it took a year. wait it out dude
The fact that you are her first and she is probably nervous wouldn't be helping any. But you are going to have to go slow with her until she gets used to the feel of having something in her, then let her get used to your size. Plenty of foreplay and then start using fingers, vibrators, dildos etc and then gradually work up to her taking your cock.
is this really such a bad thing? i've been with my current girlfriend for 1.5 years, and she hasn't loosened up at all, which works out for me.
If you're unlucky like me, you end up marrying her and she never gets used to it. In fact she gets worse, she's terrified of it and clamps up. Been to counselling but still no joy. I guess mine is worst case scenario, hopefully yours will be fine.
