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I have been messing around with this girls for awhile now and she is a virgin, when i finger her she's super tight! any advice on making this less painful for her? we've tried penetration before but she stops after an inch and it's killing me!
 

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The first thing to suggest would be practice! That's the only way to get round these.

One inch is kind of extreme, though.
 

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i hope so! i'm not super hung, but for her i guess i'm too big, i'm 8" uncut 5" around. we def need to try some lube, maybe she's scared, or maybe she's teasing me! either way i appreciate the help and any other suggestions you might have!
 

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hey, 8in is a pretty good size, it's coming close to super hung i reckon. but you just need to go for it really, if you just keep on not fucking her then she isn't going to get looser by herself. just keep things slow to start with (not that you'll really be able to start slam-fucking her or whatever when she's that tight anyway.)
 

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Also, she may be too nervous and not fully aroused. GEt into a bit of foreplay, open her up and get her wet, then go for it.

8" is massive, btw, you could say "super hung" in the real world.
 

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If you are in an inch, the hard part is done, now you just need to get her to relax because no girl is that shallow. Shift the focus a bit and take it slow...
 
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5" girth is only about average, so you shouldn't have too much trouble with intercourse. Girth rather than length is the problem for penetration. Many women are apprehensive that their first time will hurt, which means they get tense which means that it hurts. You have to do all the right things like we all do and hug her and caress her and get her relaxed and bring her to orgasm before penetration. But at the end of the day it's probably going to hurt her, and you have a choice to either do it or not do it. With my now wife I did it and it hurt her.

Later, next morning in fact, sex was much better for her and for me. But that first time was not pleasant, but this is the way it often is.
 

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Guys the "lube" advice is not quite right. You can lube it up but that doesnt make her any more "loose" inside, the issue is getting her aroused enough so she's naturally lubed up (OK you can supplement with lube) but for her to open up enough to have sex with you, you have to mentally stimulate her so she's relaxed. Foreplay can take a long time with some girls and she may not be ready for a good 30-40 minutes. Once she is relaxed, its all good.
 

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im abit thicker than you and its a challenge. average thickness is around 4.5 btw. basically use lots of foreplay, lick her finger her, anything make out for hours, and then lube when you try and penetrate. its gonna be like this for awhile, but perserverance creates its own reward. its hard for girls to take big dicks when they first have sex but after they become addicted and you'll be fucking like mad.
 

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Ot sounds like she wants to, but may not have much experience with her own sexuality. How about a couple of hours of foreplay, so she's feeling very, very sexual and relaxed? Just think of it as a very, very long make-out session.
 

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i hope so! i'm not super hung, but for her i guess i'm too big, i'm 8" uncut 5" around. we def need to try some lube, maybe she's scared, or maybe she's teasing me! either way i appreciate the help and any other suggestions you might have!

For a virgin, it's not so much the length as it is the thickness of your cock that causes pain.

Simba
 

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how much foreplay is typical for you? i would agree that trying different dildos might help. if she gets stretched a little at a time, it might take some of her fear away. but if she's a virgin, that's going to be rough as it is.
 

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Yeah there's some distance so i won't see her till friday, we're both excited to see each other so i'll bring some lube and tell you how it goes. Is there any preferred lube that you guys use?