I think it’s creepy that a 19 year old is sexually attracted to someone that was just 17 last week.
Yes the legal age of adulthood is very arbitrary, but this person has gone their entire life being seen and treated as a child, they have limited life experience, and a week after turning 18 they still have the same mentality they did as a minor. So it is fucking creepy when someone wants to fuck someone that was just birthed into adulthood.
As for your “look, now he’s 80” comment that lacks all logic, if someone doesn’t change, develop, or mature over the course of 62 years, there is an issue greater than your faulty logic. Also, the transverse of your logic works in the opposite direction. If it is okay to be attracted to someone 18 years and 1 week old, then it’s okay to be attracted to someone 18 years old, and someone 17 years and 51 weeks, etc. And oh shit, look, now he's 2 years old and you can still be attracted to him because he's no different than he was when he was 2 years and 1 week old. You fuck off you fucking idiot.
Just let kids exist as adults for longer than a fucking week before you start sexualizing them, like god damn.
You’re an adult now, you have been for at least a year, it’s high time you start defining your standards and what you find acceptable.
If you are attracted to someone that was just a child, and therefore you were attracted to them when they were a child, while you’ve been in the harsh cold real world for over a year, admit it and accept it. Ya gross hunny, c’est la vie.