Time it takes me to cum when getting a blow job

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Not sure if this topic has raised, I noticed on here a few topics on how long the guy would last when fucking.

For me, I've noticed when getting a blow job to completion, the time it takes for me to cum varies, sometime I lasted within 1 minute, other times I can last beyond 5 minutes. I believed it's depend on how good the cocksucker is and how horny I was or am I just getting better control on when I should cum.

It happened last night when a guy was sucking me off, he was decent in sucking cock and I was able to hold on and enjoy the pleasure of getting my cock sucked. During the blowjob, he even let me fucked his throat. I'd held his head still and gently shoved my cock down his throat, this went on for a minute or so, he was moaning and had a gag reflex so I stopped and let him started sucking on my cock, after about 5 minutes or so, the guy told me he wanted to give his mouth break and will come back sucking me later.
 

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Not sure if this topic has raised, I noticed on here a few topics on how long the guy would last when fucking.

For me, I've noticed when getting a blow job to completion, the time it takes for me to cum varies, sometime I lasted within 1 minute, other times I can last beyond 5 minutes. I believed it's depend on how good the cocksucker is and how horny I was or am I just getting better control on when I should cum.

It happened last night when a guy was sucking me off, he was decent in sucking cock and I was able to hold on and enjoy the pleasure of getting my cock sucked. During the blowjob, he even let me fucked his throat. I'd held his head still and gently shoved my cock down his throat, this went on for a minute or so, he was moaning and had a gag reflex so I stopped and let him started sucking on my cock, after about 5 minutes or so, the guy told me he wanted to give his mouth break and will come back sucking me later.
A lot is down to the blower as to how quick you cum. Mind you there are other things that make you cum quick - like if you've been horny all afternoon, seen some porn or guys making out then a sucker can get my load pretty quickly. On the other side of the coin if its going in from cold, sucked hard then I can make it last.
Remember its not just the oral interaction that counts but how the guy is using his hands on the rest of your body, nipples, finger fucking ball play. Then there is the location to take into consideration and the state of dress - so many different combinations to take into account.
 
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@chrisrobin I agreed with your replied as there are other factors involved. I've noticed lately that instead of rushing into feeling the pleasure of getting head, I'd pay more attention on my body how it is reacting and would able to control it more by distracting my mind a little bit. It not always work, but at least I got my body to slow down and enjoy more on getting heads.

I think everyone would agree, every cocksucker has his/her own ways of sucking cock, when I get my cock sucked by the same cocksucker month after month, I'd get a little de-sensitized a bit based on the familiarity and that would also took me a little longer to cum.
 

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It depends on the technique. Some guys don't have the right rhythm; at some point, I'll go numb from it. If there is enthusiasm and skill then the guy can get me off. If they don't do it within 5 minutes or so then it probably won't happen.
 

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It depends on the technique. Some guys don't have the right rhythm; at some point, I'll go numb from it. If there is enthusiasm and skill then the guy can get me off. If they don't do it within 5 minutes or so then it probably won't happen.
I've experienced that numbing feeling with every female who has sucked my cock.
 

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From all the replies so far, I do share and agreed with what have been posted.
One thing I just remember, back in my college days, I've answered an add from a local guy looking to give blow jobs. When I first met him, he was decent looking and was about mid-30s. At that time, I'd no issues of letting him sucking me off.

The first 2 questions he asked me were: "Do you cum quick and is your cum sludge or watery"? For him, he wasn't into someone taking too long to cum.
 

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Depends on how good she is.

If she sucks on my balls really hard while stroking my cock, I'll probably cum faster than usual due to the pressure i feel from the hard ball sucking and sensation on my shaft/glans
 

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Takes me a long time to cum in general lol. Really depends on my level of horniness, and how long since I came.
Love a guy who last a long time. My jaw may get sore but who cares.
 

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As others have said it depends.

What makes me come fastest during a BJ is when my balls are cupped in one hand with a couple fingers extended pressing against and slightly moving against my perineum aka taint. Drives me wild. :cool:
 

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As others have said it depends.

What makes me come fastest during a BJ is when my balls are cupped in one hand with a couple fingers extended pressing against and slightly moving against my perineum aka taint. Drives me wild. :cool:
That's a unique way of how you like your balls handled while getting BJ, I would like to try that one out. For me, I'm on the opposite, I liked it a lot while my cock is getting sucked, the cocksucker full grab my balls with one hand and pull them down. If this get done right (like gentle and in rhythm), the sensation is very erotic to me.
 

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I can make a guy cum faster - or slower. With me it depnds on his cock. If it's one of my favorite, 7-9", not crazy thick, cut with a nice mushroom head - I don't want that to end too fast - especially if I keep deep throating him.
 

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During all aspects of sex (including masturbation) it can take me quite a while to cum. On average, I'd say my quickest is 10-20 minutes, and it can take a lot longer. Some partners love seeing me get more and more intense/sweaty/loud as my orgasm builds, and others don't have patience for it. I've accepted that fact and am happy to just have fun.
 

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During all aspects of sex (including masturbation) it can take me quite a while to cum. On average, I'd say my quickest is 10-20 minutes, and it can take a lot longer. Some partners love seeing me get more and more intense/sweaty/loud as my orgasm builds, and others don't have patience for it. I've accepted that fact and am happy to just have fun.
I’m the same way; some times it’s makes my partners think I’m not into them but I just show them by fucking them deeper and apologize for not being a two pump chump.
 
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During all aspects of sex (including masturbation) it can take me quite a while to cum. On average, I'd say my quickest is 10-20 minutes, and it can take a lot longer. Some partners love seeing me get more and more intense/sweaty/loud as my orgasm builds, and others don't have patience for it. I've accepted that fact and am happy to just have fun.
This is every man ideal, not have to worry about premature ejaculations. Out of curiosity, are you circumcised? I know being circumcised help to last longer during sex, I'm assume sexual intercourse, I'm not sure if this is the same if you're getting a blow job.
 
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