It takes me a very long time to cum. It takes so long sometimes that I can actually piss off who I am with. I hate that I can't "cum on demand"! I've had 'sex-capade' weekends where I have fucked and gotten sucked MANY times and NEVER came. For me, it just adds more stress knowing whoever I am with is expecting a huge load and I don't always deliver! UGH!!!!
Time it takes me to cum when getting a blow job
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I'm in the same boat. Some guys can get me off orally, but not most. I've gotten similar guys off by letting them fuck my mouth. I think the thrusting motion builds feelings up more easily. One of my favorite things, especially if I'm in the mood to let the other guy take the lead, is to lie on my back and let him go to town, fucking my mouth. You might cum more easily if you're with a guy who lets you do that (or at least if you stand and thrust into his mouth).
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I can relate to what you've experienced as I've been there recently. I think it's not you but the cocksucker. Those who sucks well, will eventually get you off. One time I couldn't cum when a guy sucking me for about 10 minutes, there were a few times that I almost there then it didn't happened. The guy wanted to take a break, so I went ahead with a different one, within 5 minutes, the 2nd cocksucker got me shot my load right down his throat. The frustration just went right out of my system.
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This is why I LOVE giving head. I hold the power/control over when my top cums. I really love sucking cock, I'm totally obsessed with feeling a long dick slide down my throat and holding it there, teasing the head, long stroking it with my mouth and cupping his balls. I will do my best to make it last, so edging a guy is really important. I'll suck and throat him until he really needs to cum and then, and only then, will I switch gears to get his load. Some guys don't like giving head and want it to end quick. Not me. The more time I have a cock down my throat, but bigger turn on it is for me and the more sexually satisfied I am.
It’s much easier now I’m circumcised I was to sensitive before, it really depends on who is giving me a BJ and how good they are, boys are much better than girls at giving BJs that’s for sure
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So true. My job is please the man I'm sucking off. To completion. My goal is to get him to shoot his cum into my throat, only after edging him so that I get every drop.
I disagree. My wife of more than 40 years always seems happy to suck my cock. Yesterday morning is a typical example.
She had an intense orgasm after I'd spent quite a bit of time sucking and playing with her nipples and teasing her clit and slit with my fingers. I then grabbed a vibrator, placed it against her clit, and finger fucked her. 15-20 minutes of moaning, writhing in pleasure, and panting before she finally went over-the-top. It took her 5 minutes of just laying there to recover. She then rolled onto her side, grabbed my cock, and began sucking my shaft and licking my balls. She was (and always is) very enthusiastic. When she was satisfied with her work, she asked me to enter her which I did.
It is a rare occasion when we have sex without her sucking me first. I think she enjoys the "challenge" of getting me erect and seeing just how hard she can make me before asking me to penetrate her.
It depends on so many factors. When I first started being blown., I was often so excited that I came in seconds. Now, whether giving or receiving, I like extended blow jobs. My girlfriend is brilliant at keeping things going. One of her tricks is to control my balls with her hand to keep them from moving up when I'm too excited. That's a way of delaying an early orgasm.
Oh man hate was pleasant experience I alway blow my lovers till they cum but all depends on the people and how turned on you are .
I would say that is an urban legend. Not to go too far down the cut/uncut rat hole but I've been with uncut guys who last plenty long - maybe too long - and cut guys who are done in a minute or two. Some cut guys just need to get on with it full force to have enough sensation to keep it up and finish at all while uncut can take their time since they have plenty of stimulation to take their time.
It can take me long time to finish from a BJ and sometimes I don't get there at all. As said above it somewhat depends on when I came last, how horny I am, etc. but the BJ giver being sure to focus more just below the head and on the frenulum area bumping up into the ridge of the glans helps a lot. My head can be too sensitive if it is getting most of the attention - cut cock here BTW. Also just keeping doing the same thing helps. When it changes up it somewhat restarts the clock for me.
I've recently taught BF to do this to me and the results are very good- much more time with my cock in his mouth
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Been too long since I've had a good blowjob. But if it's really good, about 3-4 minutes. Anyone want to volunteer to help a guy out? I love deepthroating. 
The longest I have ever sucked a guys dick is a good thirty minutes before he came… and I thought damn if he lasted this long getting a blowjob imagine what be like him fucking …
I learned then why he preferred getting blowjobs more than fucking someone.. he prob lasted 5 minutes fucking .. he apologized and I said why.. it is what it is ..
I knew a guy that I touched his leg and was talking to him and he went to pull his dick out and soon as the head of his dick hit air.. he was shooting cum up his shirt .. he freaked out and figured I wouldn’t want to be with a guy that came that quickly but he took off before I could talk to him.. I wanted to tell him I wasn’t after his dick .. but he was gone and I messaged him and he replied … but didn’t want to meet again… I thought hope he finds someone that’s as willing to be with him like I was..
How long you last also depends how sensitive the head is .. as well
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