Over the holiday at my parents house i came across a photo of me at my college graduation sitting on a sofa with at the time, two ex girlfriends. They were both beautiful, wonderful people and very good in bed, but time and circumstance didn't work out. This has been the case with every girlfriend/fiance i have ever had. It made me wonder if I should just give up and forget about finding a mrs. and having children and settle for random hook up sex and resign myself to not having what i want the most. Is there a time to give up or not? Just keep trying? It's getting pretty old and exhausting.