Tip of the hat to the straight guys

[BBB2.5]

I appreciate the sentiment behind this thread. However, I have trouble understanding why people feel such a strong need to identify their own and others sexual preferences in terms of gay, straight or bi.

Suppose I enjoyed water sports or some other diversion deemed 'kinky' by mainstream society. Would I be hiding in the closet by not making it known? Is there something wrong with keeping some stuff to one's self?

Furthermore what would any of this have to do with a person's ability to communicate on a message board?

Just wondering.

Good point ...From where I sit...Most people in our little spear of life. Are assumed to be straight. With my announcement that I am a Gay man. Keeps them aware that they are NOT the only one living here.
Those of us who have decided not to live in silence have big shoes to wear. People will assume that we are shoving it down their throats " just be who you are and don't announce it" ..bull
Stating the fact that we are Gay, helps in the battle.
We are all equals in this life. Therefore we all should be treated as such.
This carries us into a very difficult topic..."equal right"..I will not take us there.
As for your comparison to "water sports"....that is a sexual fetish" you cannot compare a person sexual identity to a fetish.
We have not chosen to be Gay....but a person who is into "water sports" chooses to do that.
What does this have to do with the board? ...It lets everyone know that this view or statement is from a Gay persons point of view and not a straight one.
:tongue:

 

[inkubus963]

Do you have names for different types of being gay in the US ? Like lesbian there are the femine and the masculine too...

Someone have the time to explain to me ?:tongue: :wink:

There are several different "names" for the varied types of gays. Unfortunately, none of them tend to be very complimentary.

 

[CUBE]

BBB 2.5 you go. Good points made pal.

 

[Shelby]

I was considering asking how one determines the difference between a sexual fetish and a sexual identity. But in deference to the original intent of this thread I suggest we don't go there.

Peace brothers.
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[Gisella]

There are several different "names" for the varied types of gays. Unfortunately, none of them tend to be very complimentary.

Im sorry about that...

I just wanted to know inside the gay community what are the different expressions of being gay are named or view...and the only thing that i know to identify is as being more or less feminine...more or less masculine ...

I do not mean to be unkind...sorry.

 

[Matthew]

Im sorry about that...

I do not mean to be unkind...sorry.

I don't think anyone thought you were being unkind, Gisella.

I agree that it might be interesting to discuss "sexual identity" vs. "fetish" and yeah, this thread probably isn't the place.

 

[Gisella]

I don't think anyone thought you were being unkind, Gisella.

I agree that it might be interesting to discuss "sexual identity" vs. "fetish" and yeah, this thread probably isn't the place.

Very well than Matthew...:wink: it will be very interesting indeed!

If somebody open a thread about it please respond to my questions , ok?

Kisses...:tongue: Me...

 

[inkubus963]

Im sorry about that...

I just wanted to know inside the gay community what are the different expressions of being gay are named or view...and the only thing that i know to identify is as being more or less feminine...more or less masculine ...

I do not mean to be unkind...sorry.

Ah, sorry I was unclear, Gisella, I never thought you were being unkind :smile: .

 

[Gisella]

Ah, sorry I was unclear, Gisella, I never thought you were being unkind :smile: .

Take your sorry back Inki ...i perceived wrong because i sometimes do not get the tone things are been said in english...:redface: :wink:

Kisses

 

[Lex]

Take your sorry back Inki ...i perceived wrong because i sometimes do not get the tone things are been said in english...:redface: :wink:

Kisses

Gisella, you are precious. The site is a better place for your prescence, honey! Your difficulty uinderstanding what we write is a reminder to all of us to try ot be very clear when we type. Thanks!

 

[BBB2.5]

BBB 2.5 you go. Good points made pal.

I'm going....:wink: ....to keep the voice for the Gay community alive.
:tongue:

 

[Gisella]

Gisella, you are precious. The site is a better place for your prescence, honey! Your difficulty uinderstanding what we write is a reminder to all of us to try ot be very clear when we type. Thanks!

Thank u Lex...wow:redface:

U think i'm honey....:flirt:

And you are my Vin Diesel... :hug: with all due respect : u are yumi yumi Lex...


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[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

If only all straght men loved gay guys as much as i do the world would be a better place. :kiss:

 

[B_HungSpermBoy]

If only all straght men loved gay guys as much as i do the world would be a better place. :kiss:

I'm thinking that if we ALL loved each other, it would be a better place.

 

[BBB2.5]

I'm thinking that if we ALL loved each other, it would be a better place.

Wouldn't that be great.....:grouphug: here to your fantastic idea...:beerchug2:

 

[Lex]

I, for one, am ready for feel the love.

 

[windtalkerways]

You think women are 'non visual'?? We gay men are like them in that regard.

Women simply settle for dudes that aren't in shape sometimes. This gets at the root of why many women like the "visual" company of gay men.

Ladies? Don't you like a dude in shape much as we do?

Yes, I do agree with you Stronzo...a hot-looking,
in-shape partner is way more sexy. I can't imagine
just 'settling'...I am very visual.

 

[Matthew]

Thank you, straight guys.

Because of you, I don't have to feel bad about the fact that I never learned to dress myself right.

 

[D_alex8]

Thank you, straight guys.

Because of you, I don't have to feel bad about the fact that I never learned to dress myself right.

So long as you can undress yourself right, that's really all that matters. :wink:

 

[jeff black]

So long as you can undress yourself right, that's really all that matters. :wink:

He doesn't need help with that either.. We all know Matthew has a different man in his room every night, each more than willing to help him get naked.:biggrin1: