"Tips for a guy's first time" thread

[normie]

New to this site, and on other message boards I have seen posts about advice for a guy's first time having sex (with a girl). Don't usually see anything about girls since they just lay there and take it all

Let's help the guys out.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Well then, ask a question.
You want a general tip? - Practice safe sex.

See how vauge it can get?

 

[Triasco]

I surprised that this topic didn't catch on. I'm a virgin as well, and I wouldn't mind a few tips myself. You know, things to be wary of and look out for. They say that the first time never goes as planned, and while that may be true, perhaps some of you can help keep it from being a total disaster. ^_^

 

[Sensualist7]

My first time with a chick was awesome, luckily. Every time I've had a dude blow me it just wasn't right somehow.

 

[chefgreg]

You want a tip? Use the search button.

 

[mexdude]

Well first, practice in using the condom right, buy extra lube, in case ur girl is a bit nervous and dnt get wet, and dnt get nervous yourself, maybe trying slow mutual masturbation and oral sex before any penetration is a good idea, and talk to her, ask her what she likes and what she doesnt,and be patient, i guess thats all i can come up with

 

[Triasco]

You want a tip? Use the search button.

You know what? As a matter of fact, I did use the search button, and I looked through the tags. I even went looking through other forums and such. But you know what might be nice? Instead of having to have all the people looking for the same information do the same, why don't we make things just a little bit easier (since the act itself is more than likely going to be difficult) and have it one place? Is that too much to ask?

 

[erratic]

Don't be upset if it's not absolute magic. There are a lot of skills to be learned around sex, and trial and error is the best way to learn them. Have fun learning.

 

[bigjpgh]

Here is a tip: Not all girls "just lay there and take it" so find one that doesn't and your sex life will be alot more fun!

 

[NumberTwentySix]

1. lots of foreplay (at least 20 mins)
2. lots of communication (always)
3. lots of lube (unless she is dripping wet already, then hooray for you)
4. your first time if she's comfortable with it let her be on top (lets her set the pace)
4.1 if both virgins even better if she's on top (she knows what hurts/feels good sooner)
5. she comes first (you're likely going to blow sooner than you want, so work around it)
6. do some research (the guide to getting it on/the joy of sex/HBO after 11pm)

 

[D_Sherman Shinyknob]

Use passion! It's an art and you'll eventually find your groove

 

[B_prettyswinggirl]

1. lots of foreplay (at least 20 mins)
2. lots of communication (always)
3. lots of lube (unless she is dripping wet already, then hooray for you)
4. your first time if she's comfortable with it let her be on top (lets her set the pace)
4.1 if both virgins even better if she's on top (she knows what hurts/feels good sooner)
5. she comes first (you're likely going to blow sooner than you want, so work around it)
6. do some research (the guide to getting it on/the joy of sex/HBO after 11pm)

Good advise, but I needed to have him on top cause I really didn't know what to do. It's almost a blessing the first time you will come very quickly, and if she's a virgin she'll thank you for it. Hymen breaking is NO FUN!! Lot's and lot's of foreplay and lube to help make her come. And if she means anything to you definitely make her come before you enter her to relax her as much as possible. Good luck!

 

[pcghabsy]

1. lots of foreplay (at least 20 mins)
2. lots of communication (always)
3. lots of lube (unless she is dripping wet already, then hooray for you)
4. your first time if she's comfortable with it let her be on top (lets her set the pace)
4.1 if both virgins even better if she's on top (she knows what hurts/feels good sooner)
5. she comes first (you're likely going to blow sooner than you want, so work around it)
6. do some research (the guide to getting it on/the joy of sex/HBO after 11pm)

Great tips! The key I think is to be patient.

 

[Luvhmlrg]

Be direct without being crude.
Be patient and understanding if it's her first time.
Be honest, if she's experienced and you're not, she might like the idea of teaching you.
Take your time and enjoy it.
And remember, if at first you don't succeed, try, try again.

 

[Sitronmelde]

If you're both the same age, your first time probably'll be her ninth time. If it isn't, probe around with just a couple'o'your inches 'til she's juicy.

The best line from 'Biloxi Blues' when the prostitute remarks to the struggling main character, "Breathe honey! Breathe!"

 

[601900]

Here is a tip: Not all girls "just lay there and take it" so find one that doesn't and your sex life will be alot more fun!

Exactly what she said :biggrin1:

 

[ulube08]

is a guys first time always a girls first time? woulda thought so from the responses in this thread. i wouldnt even ask for advice if the girl was a virgin too.

all i can say is virgin or not, get yourself educated on the female anatomy. foreplay is a gift to man (you know, people with penises) you can make miracles happen that might not otherwise happen if you don't warm a girl up first, but it doesnt mean shit if it doesnt mean shit, right?