New to this site! I'm average, but here for a specific question. My boyfriend is big, and I really like bottoming for him. The problem is that often, after we have sex, I have some complications (hemorrhoids, or else just discomfort). He's a girthy 8", 2" or so in diameter/5.5" around. I'm trying to figure out some options that will make things easier. Should I get a butt plug, or dildo, to prepare in advance? We've been using plenty of lube and everything. I top him too, our sex life is great. It would just be nice not to have to worry about potential discomfort or problems after he fucks me. Thoughts? Experience?