^^^As always, the man to listen to. (The man to whom to listen? You know what I mean.)
josh91, you're right in that you shouldn't have to douche. Sex should be spontaneous, and douching is actually not good for your system - the mucus and flora that should be there get flushed along with the poop. It's a "throwing the baby out with the bath water" sort of scenario.
Do pay attention to when you regularly poop. Don't fuck before then.
Do eat lots of fresh, whole foods. Just being a vegetarian (or almost-vegetarian, as you now are) doesn't mean you have a happy digestive tract. Tofu, cookies, chips, and store-bought vegetarian burritos are heavily processed and just as likely to produce gluey poo in vegetarians as they are in omnivores.
Also, while I support the right of committed couples to go without condoms, please do so with all your wits about you. Please make sure you get tested now (after three months the HIV tests are 99.whatever percent accurate), and make sure you talk about STIs other than HIV. And if you play outside the relationship, please negotiate rules about safety ahead of time.
I was gonna say the same about you!
Ok I will say I am not opposed to douching ONCE IN A WHILE. Or shallow douching more often. That is, douching of the rectum only. Deeper douching is obviously a MUST if ya are gonna do extreme penetration (extra large dildos, fisting, that sort of thing) Long dicks can be problematic, depending on your own internal anatomy. Some people have relatively short rectums, others longer ones. If your rectum is 7 inches or more in length, ya can prob never have ta worry about deep cleansing.
For the most part, if I know my schedule, and have eaten a balanced diet, I should am fine for spontaneous sex for quite a span. I try not to douche to frequently as it can throw off the internal micro flora found in the gut (especially deep cleaning)
While a colonic has been shown to be beneficial in getting rid of impacted particles and therefore improving your health) a better way would be to do that once in a while and improve your diet to not have that impacting hapen in the first place.
My sound like I am agreeing with everybody, but I am just telling you what in general is good to ok, and what works for me. There was a time I douched constantly (ad high 6 "dates" a day, and though I didn't sleep with all of them i prepared as if I was going to) I became reliant on douching to have a normal BM. It took a while o get my gut back in proper order.
Not fun.
Now i only get to see my Guy about once every 2 months, so I will do a shallow to deep clean, if only to ensure i do not have to miss anal during my off times (usually when he is horniest, tween 2 and 6am.) Course if we lived together, I would probably try and change my schedule to more coincide with his peak times, and not douche as much. He doesn't douche and I have not had any terrible problem with his cleanliness.
Yes once in a while ya might get a little dirt on your pipe. Calm down, clean off, and laugh about it. It happens. It has happened (as some have testified) even when I or others have leaned deep till the water was sparkling lear and we waited and re douched and waited ad then OOOPS! the pushing and pulling and suction of sex had jostled something waaaaaaayyy up the pipes and we have had to stop. It is not a goal to encounter that. I am not ito that sort of play. But neither am I or my partner going to go all ballistic and make the other person feel horrid. To what point.
Ther was a thred here a few months back where the bottom was way unclean and made no attempt to clean themselves *BARF!!!

) and in that case...EEEWWW!!! O even I would be hard pressed not to go off on them.
Of course if ya are going to do something kinky like ass to mouth (and no judgement, to each their own) ya may want to be as cleaned out as possible...lol just sayin!