Tips for having sex with a virgin?

[762923]

My girlfriend and I haven't had sex yet but we will eventually. She's a virgin, so obviously she's extremely tight and I'm extremely large. Just curious if anyone has any tips to make it less painful for her as well as just how to even go about it really. I'm 10.5 by 6.5 inches. Any tips would be appreciated. Thanks.

 

[D_Ginger_Vitas]

don't

 

[avg_joe]

Stop !!!

 

[762923]

Don't what? Have sex?

 

[D_Forrest_Hump]

10.5 on LPSG = 7 in reality

 

[hungteen19921992]

10.5 on LPSG = 7 in reality

 

[762923]

Maybe for you it is but unlike some ppl I'm not one to lie

 

[deleted730192]

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.

Also, she needs to be totally trusting and comfortable with you and you should demonstrate that you're worthy of that trust - lots of lube, take it slow, be prepared to back off and try again another time if she calls it off mid-penetration. Let her be in control and call the shots. Don't expect to be able to plunge it in to the hilt and pound away with reckless abandon.

Good luck. I hope you're really in love with this girl - "you break it, you own it."

 

[762923]

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.

Also, she needs to be totally trusting and comfortable with you and you should demonstrate that you're worthy of that trust - lots of lube, take it slow, be prepared to back off and try again another time if she calls it off mid-penetration. Let her be in control and call the shots. Don't expect to be able to plunge it in to the hilt and pound away with reckless abandon.

Good luck. I hope you're really in love with this girl - "you break it, you own it."

Thanks dude appreciate it

 

[Eco]

Honestly, virgins really are not going to be a lot tighter...if she's got an intact hymen then it's going to hurt her a bit even if you put a little tiny dick in there after an hour of glorious foreplay...though she's gonna want it in there, and her tolerance for pain will be high as a consequence of the arousal and desire she will feel if you're any good at all. If she's nervous then she might clam up down there...start with one finger (with short, filed fingernails on well groomed, and washed fingers!) while going down on her...then add the next finger, and maybe even a third finger. Be gentle, don't scratch her, and make sure that her pussy is aroused, and welcoming. This isn't about virgins, it's about pussy...a woman with 20 years experience will still tighten up if she's nervous or not ready yet...

The hymen is not terribly thick, and if you get her well prepped with lots of foreplay, make her cum first, have some lube, and use it on her as well as yourself, take some time, and have the slow and gentle variety of sex then it's going to be OK. It's gonna hurt her some, and that pain will linger perhaps for a few days (my first gf wasn't a fan of sitting for 3 days.). Don't worry about rocking her world with your cock the first time - she might not come from intercourse (ever) she might not act like a porn star (ever) but the experience should be about MUCH more than the mechanical act of fucking....make love to her. She is sharing something very special with you - act like it, respect it, love it, and be good to her.

Oh and I'm not gonna touch your stated size with a 10.5 inch pole, but I will say that even a 7 incher can't just pound away on a women without making it hurt, so you're going to need to make sure to ease into it for the rest of your life, even after you've been doing her for 15 years, and even if you aren't quite 10.5".

Once again...make it about loving her, her entire body, her mind...and not about your dang cock. A virgin might not be able to tell the difference, but later on, experienced women will want more than just a ram in the lungs.

 

[bobg4400]

Even though I'm completely unqualified to provide advice about sex I figured I'd at least remind you to use a condom. Even if you are 10.5 x 7 you can still get condoms that'll fit.

When exactly are you going to do it?

 

[762923]

Even though I'm completely unqualified to provide advice about sex I figured I'd at least remind you to use a condom. Even if you are 10.5 x 7 you can still get condoms that'll fit.

When exactly are you going to do it?

I dunno when and I'm allergic to latex haha (but seriously)

 

[Eco]

I dunno when and I'm allergic to latex haha (but seriously)

There are non-latex condoms: https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1....,cf.osb&fp=20d79f0a81e4895c&biw=1024&bih=655

I've only tried the *Lifestyles Skyn Large* variety, and they...are...well, they are condoms. They aren't that long though, and even with my length I'll insert the ring at the base which can cause issues depending on how vigorous the sex is...

 

[bobg4400]

I dunno when and I'm allergic to latex haha (but seriously)

Then use one made from something else like polyurethane or other non-latex condoms.

 

[bobg4400]

: https://www.google.com/search?rlz=1....,cf.osb&fp=20d79f0a81e4895c&biw=1024&bih=655

I think it explains some of the insecurites guys have when condoms over 7 x 6 are marketed as 'small'.

Kinda surprising.

 

[762923]

I'll be sure to give those a try, there aren't many condom options if you're allergic to latex tho which sucks

 

[FRE]

This thread makes sex seem like a clinical procedure than an expression of love and affection.

 

[conor]

10.5 inches....lol Let's see the pics....?

 

[ruggerkit28]

I think it explains some of the insecurites guys have when condoms over 7 x 6 are marketed as 'small'.

Kinda surprising.

There is story (don't know how true it is) that after the second world war Russia had a shortage of condoms and Churchill arranged that all the condoms sent from the UK had to be marked 'small'.

 

[thebesthotsex]

Your first experience will be absolutely dreadful for her, especially if you are both virgins and if you are really that hung. The beauty is that it will continue to get better and better as you do it. The good thing is that you are both in the same boat as far as experience is concerned. Just take it slow and enjoy your first time. You don't have to put it all the way in and you don't even need to have full-on intercourse. Foreplay is the key like someone said previously. If you go at it head on, she will be tense and tight and blah blah blah. Relax and savor the moment.