Tips for lasting longer?

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Learning how to breathe is key. Keep your breathing at a regular rate. If you are 75% close to cumming, exhale and then slow down your rate of stroking/penetration - somewhat like changing gear speeds on a bicycle. Breathing helps to dissipate the build up and desire to release.


Doug Abrahm's book , The Multi-Orgasmic Male, has been floating around for several years and is a good, inexpensive reference. To really understand what the book's message, practice on yourself in an extended (i.e. 1 to 2 hour ) self-exploration/masturbation session. Practice edging.


Also, when you are engaged in sex, feel free to tell your partner that yo don't want to cum just quite yet. That will help vary the mood.
 

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I have been married 45 years when I am about to cum I change positions I can go a long time when she sucks my cock I think the answer is change positions when she takes it up the arse I call it power fucking that is my weakness I pull out and cum between her big tits.
 

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I have been married 45 years when I am about to cum I change positions I can go a long time when she sucks my cock I think the answer is change positions when she takes it up the arse I call it power fucking that is my weakness I pull out and cum between her big tits.

now that was helpful... nooot :wink:
 

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I have never used drugs to last longer, but i use "traditional" methods, such as stopping any motion until i feel that orgasm goes back, or pressing a point on the perineus.
 

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For me it is a mental thing, think sex and pleasure and you will loose it quick. If I get close to the edge, I mentally disconnect. Something like, damn, did I remember to make my car payment. How about, visualizing some new tools or take a mental shopping trip through Home Depot or Best Buy. It cools off the moment but that's what is needed. It is usually about that time that she has the big O and starts bumping and grinding like mad. A few minutes on that ride brings me back to reality. Sometimes I can last through the third or fourth set of aftershocks. I think at that point my cock gets a little tender and gives up easy.
 

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Find a woman (or man as the case may be) that doesn't want you to last a long time?

That is one thing I love about my wife, we a very compatible with timing. I don't last the longest and she doesn't want it for that long and we are very happy that way. :)
 
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I find that getting in-touch with the body really helps me reach orgasm. Feeling myself, letting my mind gravitate on what is happening inside me.

When I'm distracted, not attuned with my physical self, and/or off on the philosophy tangent... I just go on... and on... I have an old aversion to orgasms too, I don't want to stop, even though they no longer stop me...

In a nutshell:
Focusing on the physical moment helps me get there. (Focusing on something irrelevant doesn't...)