- 7x6,
I've no answer to your question but I would say that I really like what I've just learned is called a 'grower'. I love to watch a guy go from cute flaccid to exciting hard and it's an added bonus if the size differential between the two states is marked. This doesn't make me unique, quite a few girls I know think the same way. So be content, you may not impress in the shower but in the bedroom you certainly will!
I agree, i'm well under 3" soft and I have no problems at a urinal or in a communal shower.
Sure, it brings back slight memories of showering after gym at school and feeling very inadequate but i've learned a lot about what's really important in life since then and, on top of that, women seem to like growers
p.s. Has anyone else noticed how many posts about showers (guys who are almost as big soft as hard) also feature showers (water sprinklers) ?