This is going to sound pretty weird, but having played both sides of the field (so to speak), I know that I'm pretty crap with women. Sex with guys seems to be easier: I know what it's like to be a man, so I know what feels nice. Women on the other hand, seem to be a whole different ball game, and I just don't know what feels right for them. So I'm looking for some tips (especially from any ladies on the boards). What works for foreplay? How much foreplay? What position is good to start with? Slow or fast thrusts? Anything, just throw some advice at me! For a start, how would you kick things off with a woman? With a guy I start by kissing on the lips, then work my way down their neck whilst undoing their fly, and you can easily move from there to frotting, oral, 69, etc. Is that too direct with women? I've tried watching porn for ideas, but straight porn seems split into two categories - professional porn, where the women never seem to be having a good time (massive turn off for me), or amateur porn, where you usually can't really see what's happening.