i'm 29 and i have dated with over 20 guys in my life. i consider myself as a bottom but i was never really into anal, mostly due to the fact that i used to feel more pain than pleasure most of the times i tried it. i did enjoy it a few times with guys that had a normal sized penis but when i met guys with big penises i had a big difficulty in having sex with them. i remember a couple of them got tired of trying to get it in and fuck me and they left me. i watch all these porn videos where the bottom gets fucked really hard by these big penises and i am thinking that something might be wrong with me. maybe my hole is too small for anal sex or i am not made for anal sex in general.
a few days ago i met with a really cute guy, we went on a date and then home to have sex, i really wanted him to fuck me and he had a very nice normal sized penis, i did take it in but i couldn't keep it inside me for long enough to make him cum. we did use protection and lube, i felt minimum pleasure and mostly i could feel some pain on my hole and stomach, like the lower part of my belly, i'm not sure why. i am thinking that it makes me a bad bottom this is why most of the guys won't contact me again. i always listen nice comments about my oral skills on the other hand. i don't think it was the guy's fault, he didn't force me or hurry to fuck he was very patient.
so what is wrong with me? is it true that the more often you try anal sex the more pleasurable it becomes? is it true that if you don't have anal for a long time our hole gets tight again and it's hardrer to have anal after that? what if a guy fingers you but his nail scratched your hole even with lube? i think this is what happened to me the other day cause i felt some pain while he was fucking me on the hole.
do you have any tips and tricks or any advice to make me a better bottom? thanks
a few days ago i met with a really cute guy, we went on a date and then home to have sex, i really wanted him to fuck me and he had a very nice normal sized penis, i did take it in but i couldn't keep it inside me for long enough to make him cum. we did use protection and lube, i felt minimum pleasure and mostly i could feel some pain on my hole and stomach, like the lower part of my belly, i'm not sure why. i am thinking that it makes me a bad bottom this is why most of the guys won't contact me again. i always listen nice comments about my oral skills on the other hand. i don't think it was the guy's fault, he didn't force me or hurry to fuck he was very patient.
so what is wrong with me? is it true that the more often you try anal sex the more pleasurable it becomes? is it true that if you don't have anal for a long time our hole gets tight again and it's hardrer to have anal after that? what if a guy fingers you but his nail scratched your hole even with lube? i think this is what happened to me the other day cause i felt some pain while he was fucking me on the hole.
do you have any tips and tricks or any advice to make me a better bottom? thanks