Tips On Eating Pussy?

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Hi, I'm mostly gay but have been seeing a girl for about a month now. We've been fucking no problem but I haven't gone down on her yet. Was wondering any tips on how to go down on a girl and what's the best way to make her climax? She's came by penetration but I would love for her to cum whilst I'm eating her out.

I've never actually tasted pussy before. What should I expect lol?

Any tips / knowledge would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
 
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The best advice I could give you is to listen to her and what she likes.

Most of the women I have been with love to have their clit licked. Not in a hard way but gently at first. Some don't want your tongue in their slit. Some do.

Then there is the G spot. You'll know it when you hit it. Massaging the G spot while licking the clit sometimes will send them into ecstacy..

Be patient and if she grabs your head and starts grinding your face into her pussy. Lick her clit for all your worth. She's orgasming and will probably scream fuck me when she's done.

Just hang in there buddy you'll do alright.
 

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TAKE YOUR TIME....
Don't be in a rush.
Don't dive straight into the clit.
There are nerves that run all along the sides and opening. Pay them some attention, too.
Start out soft and slow.
You can always speed up/get firmer later, if that's what she wants. If you start out too aggressively, or go there too quickly, there's a good chance of killing the moment/momentum & having to start all over... Or just being told to quit.
Talk to her beforehand & see what she likes, if you can.
During, pay attention to the cues being sent your way..... Her breathing changes, muscles tightened, etc.
Do not. Do NOT. DO NOT think porn is real life. Awful....
And, lastly, every girl is different. What works for one won't work for another.
 

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Ask HER what SHE likes. No two people with vaginas necessarily like the same things--my regular partner, for example, likes it long and slow with lots of attention paid everywhere, and the other person I'm seeing is all about getting their clit attacked nonstop.

In my experience, most people are really happy teaching new things in bed. I'm assuming she knows you've never done this before, be straight up about that and ask for guidance. You could even make it into a kinky/roleplay thing ("Professor, I'll do anything for a better mark...") if that's your style!

But the bottom line is that it's no different than sucking dick--everyone likes different things, so ask! Communication makes sex better!
 

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Have her tell you what she likes and doesn’t like. Have her tell you what to do while you’re eating her pussy.

But. If she’s quiet and is shy in talking.... Most the women I’ve gone down on tend to enjoy my technique.
On your own. Don’t just jump right in face first. Explore. Tease everywhere.

Then lick and suck on her lips. Every once in a while slip your tongue inside her or across her clit. Then move your lips to her clit and suck and nibble. Then slip down and inside her as far as you can with your tongue. Swirl it around and pull up and run your stiff tongue over her clit and make it “pop”. Then suck on it again. I’d repeat this and mix it up for whatever time you choose. Now. As you’re doing this. Use your hands to massage and explore the rest of her. Her tummy. Her breasts. Her hips and legs. Listen to her breathing. Feel her breathing. Feel her muscles and their reactions to your actions. Learn how she reacts and sometimes throw off what she expects to happen. Make her shudder. Feel the goosebumps form and feel her tense. Once you get to this point, stop being random with your tongue and continue constant consistent motions on her clit and she will lose her mind.
 

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Write the alphabet around her clit with ur tongue

It is so weird how many cis men are given that advice. Literally everyone with a vagina I've mentioned that to has laughed and said it's stupid, pointless, and they can always tell that's what's going on.
 
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It is so weird how many cis men are given that advice. Literally everyone with a vagina I've mentioned that to has laughed and said it's stupid, pointless, and they can always tell that's what's going on.

Of course that's why you have to lick all the four letter words you know in cursive!
 
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It is so weird how many cis men are given that advice. Literally everyone with a vagina I've mentioned that to has laughed and said it's stupid, pointless, and they can always tell that's what's going on.

For arguments sake assuming a CIS Man was born with a vagina why would they need advice on eating one?
 

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A side from what everyone else has said. Throw your confidence into a wood chipper. Cause odds are good that you'll screw it up the first time. Maybe even the second and third. And that's because there's a lot of information out there about it that has nothing to do with the woman's pleasure.

Go in blind and communicate. Be detective lickachu. :p
 

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Have her tell you what she likes and doesn’t like. Have her tell you what to do while you’re eating her pussy.

But. If she’s quiet and is shy in talking.... Most the women I’ve gone down on tend to enjoy my technique.
On your own. Don’t just jump right in face first. Explore. Tease everywhere.

Then lick and suck on her lips. Every once in a while slip your tongue inside her or across her clit. Then move your lips to her clit and suck and nibble. Then slip down and inside her as far as you can with your tongue. Swirl it around and pull up and run your stiff tongue over her clit and make it “pop”. Then suck on it again. I’d repeat this and mix it up for whatever time you choose. Now. As you’re doing this. Use your hands to massage and explore the rest of her. Her tummy. Her breasts. Her hips and legs. Listen to her breathing. Feel her breathing. Feel her muscles and their reactions to your actions. Learn how she reacts and sometimes throw off what she expects to happen. Make her shudder. Feel the goosebumps form and feel her tense. Once you get to this point, stop being random with your tongue and continue constant consistent motions on her clit and she will lose her mind.
Pretty much what he said.
All women are different so you just have to explore and find what she likes, there isn't really one set technique to it, for the first time I start doing something other girls have enjoyed and then go from there taking it wherever she seems to like.
It's not hard to be good at it, literally just do what she likes and change what you are doing to suit that, most of all just put some effort into it and she will appreciate it.
If she is enjoying it but your jaw or tongue is aching, just suck it up and carry on, it will be worth it!
 
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