Tips On Throat Training?

D

deleted808122

Guest
Women often (with exceptions, of course) have a more difficult time throating large partners as the esophagus diameter is a limiting factor. While somewhat elastic, it can be painful to force something down that simply doesn't fit. Expect your throat to feel it afterwards, especially if he's thick.

Here are a few things that have helped me:
- Be well hydrated. It helps you make more saliva and esophageal lubricant (mucous)

- Have an empty stomach. Even if you think you have your gag reflex under control, accidents can happen.

- Straighten, or match, the bend. Be sure that your neck geometry matches the shape of his cock. If he's straight, tilt your head back so he has a straight shot. If he's curved up/down/left/right, align your body so it will not try to bend him a different direction. I love 69ing a super hung guy when he has an upward curve. It's like it was made to be throated!

- Use your tongue. It's a very powerful muscle, and with training can do wondrous things. When relaxed, the back of it is thick and takes up a huge percentage of your throat, so learning to flatten it (stick your tongue out...far!) is super important.

- Use your tongue. Think of it as a conveyor belt that can draw his cock in with it. When he's at the back of your mouth, reach out as far as you can with your tongue and pull him in with it. Takes practice.

- Use your tongue. Make his balls your tongue target. Think of how incredibly turned on he'll be when you get him all the way down and can savor his balls with the tip of your tongue. It's one of those motivating things that I aim for.

- Don't just choke him down. Think of your throat as a wonderful extension of your vagina. Make love to him with it. Fuck him with it. Try to orgasm from the feeling of bringing him to orgasm with it. Don't just bask in the triumph of getting it down then go back to just the head, unless you want to work the technique, then back off and give your throat break until he's ready to come and then swallow him again for the main event.

- If you don't have a dildo to practice on, get one, or several. Longer and thinner is good for basic training, then progress to something thicker to understand the difference in techniques necessary. Of course, if your man wants to play the part of the dildo and be patient and understanding (I would be!), all the better. Don't get discouraged; it's not something many have the dedication to master, which is what makes it special.

Above all else - Have fun!
 

englad

Superior Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Mar 6, 2007
Posts
2,881
Media
28
Likes
7,904
Points
468
Location
Germany
Verification
View
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
I think that was good advice so far.

What I would add is take your time and breathe through the nose as you normally would. Being well lubricated is particularly important. Go slowly, build up, focus on the head first. Work your way up to getting say a quarter in. Once you've managed that, you can move down to getting the first half in. I personally find a pivoting strategy to work well for me, so place the palms of your hands flat against his body (between his cock and his hips is a good place to do so). Each time you go a bit deeper down his cock, hold it there for a few seconds as this will help getting used to the amount of throat stretching. Once you've done three quarters a few times, move the hands round to his bum and push him upwards into your mouth. I personally that helps with deepthroating particularly large penises. Trying to maintain eye contact will add a lot of enjoyment for you too (watching him melt is fucking hot).

You can also practise on fruit too, large bananas work well for practising for curved cocks.
 
  • Like
Reactions: deleted1138933

HOU_HEADHUNTER

Superior Member
Joined
Jan 22, 2017
Posts
1,768
Media
0
Likes
8,089
Points
233
Location
Houston, Texas, United States of America
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
Grip your thumbs inside your fists, it kills your gag reflex. Not specific to your issue but it helps deep throating.
I used to do this all the time. Now I don't have to because my throat is accustomed to being stretched.
 
  • Like
Reactions: DildoShwaggins
1

1141702

Guest
I used to do this all the time. Now I don't have to because my throat is accustomed to being stretched.
Someone once mentioned it here I think, and I’ve been doing it ever since. Perhaps it was you. :p
 

BBB2.5

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Posts
9,136
Media
127
Likes
18,400
Points
468
Age
58
Location
Unadilla, Georgia, United States
Verification
View
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
Grip your thumbs inside your fists, it kills your gag reflex. Not specific to your issue but it helps deep throating.
This really helps? ... Interesting, I will try this method out.
 
  • Like
Reactions: DildoShwaggins

Sitronmelde

Admired Member
Joined
May 24, 2007
Posts
424
Media
2
Likes
793
Points
248
Location
Tampa (Florida, United States)
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
People are giving advice to go slow, but lodging the big cockhead against her tonsils and only going that far for for years turned out to be counterproductive. It was only when I pulled her head towards me and actually entered her neck that she was confident to do this herself. Those guys with short peckers thrusting at the throat entrance are just increasing a woman's gag reflex. And please, no more advice about having her hang her head backwards over the edge of the bed, because she needs to learn first how to let her saliva flow out and not get choked by it. My wife was worried about the mess, but after I put a towel under my balls she was able to relax, and wonderfully, her slick throat saliva is the best lube you can imagine. Once you in her throat, you can pump a bit, then pull her head off so she can breathe. Once she is over that intimidation factor, there will be a new gleam in her eyes.
 
  • Like
Reactions: WendiLouWho
1

1491072

Guest
I suppose it’s gets pretty tiring for some to hear, but I’ve never really had a problem taking a hard dick down my throat. Now I’m not saying I’ve had the biggest dicks, but I’ve had some pretty big ones. Two come to mind as I write this, a black one and a white one (the white dick just happen to belong to the cutest little dark headed guy you ever saw).

I mean some dicks just go down 1 - 2 - 3. And with others the time it takes is stretched out a little more. But I’ve yet to be with any guy, and I haven’t been with tons, but I have had my fair share, who I haven’t gone completely down on.

I’ve known many guys who say the same thing about taking a huge ass dick up they’re butt, that most other guys would run from. Maybe this is the same thing but only up, or down, I should say, a different hole. MmmMmmM?

It really depends upon the person who wants to accommodate, or not accommodate, the penis in question.

Back to the two big dicked guys I mentioned at the beginning; the black guy was simply bea-uti-ful. (I felt wrong for not saying so earlier.)
 
1

1491072

Guest
Get a flexible toy, practice just holding it at the point past gag trigger.
Eventually it will just pop in
I find it hot when a dude teases that spot. You want him to go down and through, but he backs off and toys with ya for a bit. but eventually, after whimpering enough, he slides right on through and begins to long-dick ya, while occasionally bottoming out and holding steady while my throat spasms with joy. Love it!
 
  • Like
Reactions: Retired77904
1

1360033

Guest
Women often (with exceptions, of course) have a more difficult time throating large partners as the esophagus diameter is a limiting factor. While somewhat elastic, it can be painful to force something down that simply doesn't fit. Expect your throat to feel it afterwards, especially if he's thick.

Here are a few things that have helped me:
- Be well hydrated. It helps you make more saliva and esophageal lubricant (mucous)

- Have an empty stomach. Even if you think you have your gag reflex under control, accidents can happen.

- Straighten, or match, the bend. Be sure that your neck geometry matches the shape of his cock. If he's straight, tilt your head back so he has a straight shot. If he's curved up/down/left/right, align your body so it will not try to bend him a different direction. I love 69ing a super hung guy when he has an upward curve. It's like it was made to be throated!

- Use your tongue. It's a very powerful muscle, and with training can do wondrous things. When relaxed, the back of it is thick and takes up a huge percentage of your throat, so learning to flatten it (stick your tongue out...far!) is super important.

- Use your tongue. Think of it as a conveyor belt that can draw his cock in with it. When he's at the back of your mouth, reach out as far as you can with your tongue and pull him in with it. Takes practice.

- Use your tongue. Make his balls your tongue target. Think of how incredibly turned on he'll be when you get him all the way down and can savor his balls with the tip of your tongue. It's one of those motivating things that I aim for.

- Don't just choke him down. Think of your throat as a wonderful extension of your vagina. Make love to him with it. Fuck him with it. Try to orgasm from the feeling of bringing him to orgasm with it. Don't just bask in the triumph of getting it down then go back to just the head, unless you want to work the technique, then back off and give your throat break until he's ready to come and then swallow him again for the main event.

- If you don't have a dildo to practice on, get one, or several. Longer and thinner is good for basic training, then progress to something thicker to understand the difference in techniques necessary. Of course, if your man wants to play the part of the dildo and be patient and understanding (I would be!), all the better. Don't get discouraged; it's not something many have the dedication to master, which is what makes it special.

Above all else - Have fun!

I know this is targeted towards women, but I'm going to try this as well. I've got a boyfriend who is quite well endowed. The only was he can get off from oral is a lot of head stimulation, which is mostly through deepthroating. so, I'm on the hunt for any and all tips to get rid of that pesky gag reflex.