Tips to successfully deep throat a big dude?

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  1. eyescream

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    I love giving BJs but have never really tried deep-throating. How do I go about it? I don't want to let the guy I'm with know that I'm 100% new to it (but no doubt he's going to know I'm no expert). How do I make it a good effort thing as opposed to seeming hopeless at it?

    Would love to hear some tips from those who remember how they've mastered it. :)
     
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    Some people cant, the gag reflex kicks in and they nearly choke out on it. Best advice is to always take as much as you can, and just push that boundary a bit. Most guys I know are just happy to get head, and dont necessarily care if you give them a porn star BJ.
     
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    It's true, i dont really care, as long as i get one, the feeling is still great no matter what.:biggrin1:
     
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    If a penis is above average it's hard to deep throat, certainly when he has some girth to.

    It's all in the mind - if you try it and won't succeed - he will enjoy it. ( he thinks, wow I have a big one )
    If you can take it with ease - he will be supprised ( she has that done before ) or he will ask himself "I have a little sucker"

    So... up to you. But you can easily exercice with a banana.
    [ Yes... we have no bananas today :) ]
     
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    Well, a novice would try to swallow it all prematurely. Make sure the entire shaft is wet, and gradually take additional inches as you become more comfortable. (This is usually done to me before I am fully erect. It may work for you as well). Proper breathing is important to alleviate choking and bar the gag reflex. The more relaxed you are, the better you will breathe. Do not rush. Do the best you can, with as much as you can. Practice will make you better. Rome wasn't built in a day.
     
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    practise, practise, practise. Sometimes I can deep throat a man and sometimes I can't. Depends on how big around his cock is, and the shape of the head. Some slip down easier than others, but practise makes perfect, so be a team player and keep on trying.
     
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    I'll be sure to pass some of these tips to my g/f. thanks
     

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    ^ pathetic, stop crassly promoting yourself
     
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    most important thing is to really relax. don't get excited and try to take too much. work it down slowly. you DO get better with practice but a lot of this is just learning how to control yourself. i feel like i reach a certain point where im warmed up and then really able to take it then.
     
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    not exactly like the real thing but it does give a little confidence and you can practice and gag as much as you like without feeling too stupid, unless someone walks in while you're throating it.:frown1:
     
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    if you have a buzz, the gag reflex doesn't kick in as easily. I'm not promoting getting drunk or to do drugs, but I have a friend that says smoking pot totally eliminates the gag reflex. I just tried it with a buzz and impressed myself but had a very sore throat the next day! He is also very large and thick!
     
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    This is just as dangerous as getting drunk, or numbing yourself to stop anal sex from hurting; You're supposed to feel pain, or have a gag reflex for a reason; To stop you from hurting yourself as quickly as possible. The inner-butt and the throat are probably two of THE worst areas to get an injury in.

    Be sober, go slow and keep in mind: Deepthroating is only a parlour trick that's done if it really turns the guy on. If you're good enough at sucking, you won't even need to deepthroat. If you're gonna do it, though: Stay sober, and just go slow and practice taking it as far as you can; You're absolutely not going to be able to do it the first time, or even the first ten times you try it. With enough practice and relaxation, the gag reflex should lessen on its own. If it hurts, or makes you feel like you're gonna puke. . .STOP. NEVER let him push your head down, or thrust while you're deepthroating.
     
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    Bananas are easier to do because the curve matches the correct shape, but it's scary for me because I'm afraid the banana will break and I'll choke on it. :eek:
     
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    First time I deepthroated it was actually accidental. I was giving head to my house mate who had a long but thin dick, and it just popped past my larynx and then I had my mouth around the base of his cock. I had tried doing it to guys before but it had never worked. I think the barrier was mental more than physical. After that I found deepthroating easy other than really thick dicks. How big you can go is quite amazing, as I've recounted before, the biggest cock I've ever deepthroated would have been 9x6ish - he grabbed my head and just firmly push his cock against the back of my throat until it went down. After that I could take him easily, again more of a psychological barrier as to how much I could take.
     
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    directly from the National Society of Deep Throating Research (NSDTR)...

    Dr. Susan Cuttler recently wrote this article...
    very interesting...

    "Women's jaws actually "unhinge" themselves to allow the penis to pass - it's really quite amazing to watch them swallow a penis that is probably 10 times the size of their head. They don't have teeth per se, but tiny needle-like projections that aid both holding and in moving the penis back towards their throat. And, like someone else mentioned, they usually have their hands bound or cuffed and therefore, have no choice but to eat their penis whole. When the penis has passed the mouth, they will kind of move their jaws around, almost like they're yawning, to get their jaws back to normal."
     
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    dw...if u are trying guys normally like it...

    and its kinda hot to see a girl gag on ur cock cos she is trying to get it in....makes you feel big (even if u arent) and shows that she really wants to make you happy.
     
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