Tired after Orgasm?

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  1. D_Renyson_Ripbottom

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    Girls,

    What's up with that girl I'm seeing at the moment?

    She gets extremely tired after each orgasm.

    I'm pretty confident she is not faking. Sex flush, pussy contractions, back arching, oversensitive nipples/pussy afterwards .. all is there.

    I tried not stimulating her clitoris at all, but she always gets off. Can you believe this? I try not to make her orgasm so she doesn't get tired.

    She is extremely hot and I could fuck her the whole day and the whole night. But she's just not up to it ... 2-3 orgasms per day is the max she takes and then she sleeps all the time. What's up with that?

    (Ironically, eating also makes her tired. She's in her 30s)
     
  2. Principessa

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    Sex, done properly is exhausting. It does seem that you are doing it properly. :biggrin1: :wink:

    Does she need to nap after each orgasm or after the third or fourth orgasm? Napping after the third or more I think is normal. That's snuggle time. :smile: She probably needs a glass of water then too. Sex for us girls who squirt is dehydrating as well as exhausting. :redface:

    If you literally fuck her one time and she needs to nap then she is probably anemic or maybe she has a hypothyroid (underactive).

    Eating makes her tired? :confused: What the heck are you feeding her? Is she one of those skinny chicks who eats but never finishes her meal because she's tired of chewing? :12: :rolleyes:

    I may be wrong, but sounds to me like she needs a complete physical and they need to pay close attention to her TSH, T3 & T4 levels.

     
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    next thing you do, ask her if this is normal just like in the past... if not, you have been special.
     
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    i have the exact opposite problem after orgasm. i become wide awake and i'm unable to sleep.
     
  5. MickeyLee

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    depends on the orgasm. rough and tumble sex i wanna sleep. morning sex is strictly get off/go to back to sleep. masturbation wakes me up in the am, sleepy at the bedtime. frisky fuck around on the couch is a pick me up.

    might be a difference in the types of orgasm. in general clitoral is speed. vaginal is heroin.
    also build up vs instant gratification.

    either way i am totally willing to dedicate hours and hours to scientific research on the orgasm phenomenon.

    next field of study is the mystery of post-orgasmic chinese food cravings.

    ML
     
  6. Principessa

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    I don't crave Chinese food post-coitus. I usually go for protein. A steak, a burger, or a turkey club. Nothing fancy or with gooey sauces. :yuck: If I am PMS'g then Taco Bell will do in a pinch. :biggrin1:
     
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    i'm a vegan, so to me chinese is tofu (protein) and spicy. *grumbles* i miss steak.

    ML
     
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    After EACH orgasm? wow. i don't know what to tell you man. a bit of a rest before going again, but tired after each one. hmm. haven't known that. all i can say is that from my experience, after 3-7 orgasms over a night and we are both exhausted and need sleep, but i have never heard of after each one. have you talked with her about this? i would start there. good luck.
     
  9. MickeyLee

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    if she's in her 30s she might be having some of her first g-spot or X spot orgasms. if she takes a while to build up to orgasm it might just knock her out. she might not be sleepy she could just be blissed out and over stimulated. if she's pushing you away and sorta curling up on herself or a bit out it just keep close, keep touching her softly half way between caress and massage. you'll find out quick which is the case. if all else fail give her a redbull and a flintstone chewable before making with the grown up.

    ML
     
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    She's out of shape- no doubt. I dont mean fat... Being an ex-athlete I know that after 7 days any conditioning wears off. So, she run enough. Get her lazy ass on the treadmill and she will have more stamina.


    Oh and chances are that if you're really good in bed you're giving her really strong orgasms... Muscles are used alot during those... It would make sense she'd get tired by some point..
     
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    I know this is cliche, but it probably depends on the person. I am mutiorgasmic so a single one is never enough. In fact, after the first one my body just seems to go into overdrive...I need more. However, after my last orgasm, it is like a light switch going off. I am exhausted and just want to sleep.

    I also agree with njqt466. As a squirter myself, you can really get dehydrated so I keep an extra couple of bottles of Fiji water by my side of the bed.

    kat
     
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    so mood lighting, mood music and mood beverages are the new seduction?

    *stocks up on gatorade for the ladies* mango or tropical berry?
     
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    I would like to help you study this phenomenon....
    you take the notes and I'll bring the...equipement
     
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    The same for my wife, after a multi orgasmic session she's lights out with exhaustion after a long string of Os. Sometimes it's even nap time time after we're done after a daytime session.
     
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    I get depressed and irritable after mine. strange, huh?
     
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    I sleep better after an orgasm.
     
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