Tired of girls trying to get knocked up

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  1. fak_et

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    I am getting tired of women lately. I feel like they are trying to get knocked up by me and it is kind of annoying. In the last couple months ive had 3 girls try this stuff and it is kind of scaring me. I feel like im getting used to sperm.

    Im a good looking guy with great genes, social, popular, starting professional school, etc.

    Does anyone else have this problem and is there any way to just get them to cool it.

    An ex-gf of mine takes her pill pretty regularly but lately she is obsessed with me blowing inside her bareback and im not going to do it, it seems kind of shady the amount she wants it. Ive done her bareback a few times and when we do it, she wont get off when i tell her to.

    A second girl seemed paranoid about condoms but she would slip it in any chance we were grinding and i feel like it was under disguise.

    Ive been hanging out with another girl now and she is the strangest. No foreplay or anything she will just try to cram my dick inside of her without a condom. I havent been weird about it, i just say hold on and put one on. But now she is texting me whining about how she thinks we should do it without one because we trust each other blah blah blah. ive only had sex with her a few times theres no way im at that level with her.
     
  2. MickeyLee

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    you should stop having sex with crazy women. :smile:
     
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    i agree...not all women are like that
     
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    I dont think its because theyre trying to get knocked up
    Its because they get caught up in the moment and dont want the continuity to be ruined by putting condoms on etc... it also feels better for women without the condom because that way they can get your natural lubrication... also... as far as your first gf is concerned, some women just find it extremely hot to cum in them
     
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    Thats the part that gets edited out in porn.
     
  6. MickeyLee

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    but Mr. Fak_et has already expressed his discomfort about ejaculating inside his partners and his concerns about pregnancy. he's choosing to use condoms/pull out for his own piece of mind, if the women continue to persist or try to skirt around his comfort level their behavior isn't sexual anymore it's disrespectful and totally suspect.

    yes, i'd say i prefer the boy to cum inside me, that moment feels absolutely amazing. i still wouldn't pester or deceive my way into getting what i want. i care about any sex partner on a very basic level to think my immediate satisfaction is worth dismissing their personhood and right to say no. is tacky and crazy bitch behavior to act any other way.

    his first girlfriend is on the pill, so Mr. Fak_et might be a bit over cautious... that might be an underlying trust issue. still, he's got to be comfortable with his own actions and his choice is condoms or pull out.

    flipside.. if i told a man i wanted to use condoms and he tried to sneak/oops penetrate without a condom i wouldn't be a happy camper. same with if a man tried to cum inside of me after i said it wasn't an option.
     
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    As I said on many other threads ...

    Don't put your dick in crazy.

    If she won't respect your boundaries and looks for any chance to do it bareback without your consent, then she is going to bring trouble into your life. Stay away from her.
     
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    Sometimes you can't see crazy coming. This is why I always wrap it up. Always.
     
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    don't blame the rest of us for your crap taste in women.
     
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    There's an animal instinct part to it. I've had this same kinda thing happen and I'm sure a lot of guys have seen it. You can;t fight primal instinct!
     
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    I agree about the "Stop fucking crazy women" part. The last thing you want is to get a crazy woman pregnant. Any partner should respect your wanting to use protection.

    I also agree that it is not necessarily b/c they want you to knock them up; bareback feels great and the swelling that occurs right before ejaculation can be enough to send me over the edge, personally speaking. You don't say your age, but from the tone of it, I am guessing we are talking about some younger women who have probably been blessed with never actually getting knocked up and having to deal with the consequences of it. Most women after that experience are much more careful not to give in to primal desires.

    And just for the record, keeping your dick in your pants is the best way to avoid fatherhood. Sorry, but I was a "Fertile Myrtle" myself who would get pregnant easily! Four pregnancies and three occurred with proper and consistent use of birth control, including the pill which I'd been taking for years. The fourth was a matter of pre-ejaculatory fluid and his hands touching himself before touching me. That was all it took. No intercourse and I wasn't anywhere near him when he finally came. Scary, huh? Just keep in mind that there is that 1% chance and you never know when you may be playing with a breeder.
     
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    This is a very important thread! :headbang: :banana:
     
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    You can do yourself many favors by keeping away from immature women who have no respect for boundaries. Also do your male friends a favor by telling them why you won't date certain women. Let your friends know.
     
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    I agree with the advice not to generalize about all women based on the behaviors of 3 women. There are plenty of high quality women out there.
     
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    Go get a vasectomy. Problem solved.
     
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    Are those 100% effective?
     
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    Probably more effective than abstinence for someone who's apparently regularly boning psychotic wannabe baby-mamas on a regular basis.
     
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    You flatter yourself.
     
  19. sexplease

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    if you understand biology and to a lesser extent - anthropology, you would learn that:
    men fight and fuck
    women nurture and communicate.

    not all, but most.

    it is female nature to make babies and chat to them. When that baby starts walking away,(2-4 years old) chances are she wants another. and another
    so yes, she wants your sperm AND wallet. She cannot easily breed, nurture and earn rent.
    Men on the other hand want to fight - your job or nonsexual endeavors to win your trophie$ [of war] to woo your next (or on-going) piece of snatch.
    men don't necessarily want to make babies, but nature, in her sly and mischievous way, has brought procreation into the sex mix.

    get YOUR tubes tied and/or tell women you have . You'll get some rather interesting reactions and comments from women who say "I don't want children."
    chances are that some of them won't even get involved with you.
     
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    This is something teenagers do in order to hold onto a "special" guy, because they don't know the demands of parenthood, much less the demands of their own emotions trying to make sense about themselves and the way hormones are making them feel.

    Oddly, it is a bragging point in some social circles....