Ok LPSG has been somewhat cool so I will spill the beans
When I went to college I had NO / NADA money so I danced for a while.
I started at titty bars (topless that served alcohol) and then moved onto full nude for a while.
This is the rules were I was
Titty bars were pretty simple etiquette unless they had a private room. The girls will freak on you but cannot take off any of their clothing. (we had to have our tops on) You touch you get your ass kicked if I tell the body guard to do it. Some touching is allowed but nothing to overt (grabbing tits hard, etc.)
If it was private then the girl dictates.
In a strip join we could give you a lap dance topless and let you suck our nipples but you could not touch. In a nude join the rules are much stricter until you get into the back room or private area.
Once you are in a “private or back room” you are golden but then the girl takes over. If you think it is a free ride then you are kidding yourself. I could summon a bouncer in less then 10 seconds to toss you out even in a “locked” totally private area.
Hope this helps.