nope! i went through that too. when my breasts were a bit smaller it hurt to have them squished together. sometimes it still hurts when i do this, but it mostly depends how tight of a grip the guy has on me.
I don't have that problem, I have the other one... where little dicks get lost cuz the boobs are too big. I think I'm probably more pre-occupied with my breasts than most women as well, so that might be part of why I like it.