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Hey bottoms how long did / do you have to warm your hole up before you could / can take a big and I mean big dick? like over 9 inches and do your tops ever help you out like dildoing, fingering etc. Plus if and how do you manage pain I have to pop my big dick cherry but Wanna be a bit more informed any help would be gr8 cheers lads.
 
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It depends. If they are monstrous I'll use a couple toys until I'm comfortable with them before getting up. I don't want to be too loose though. Bit I don't want it to be painful. Sometimes the top wants to "break you in" and if you trust them to be slow and gentle that can be nice. It all comes with practice. I don't recommend just hoping on a random huge cock if you haventh practiced with a dildo first. Unless you trust the guy to be slow to start .

If it hurts a lot you should stop. You don't want to "manage pain" (unless you are into pain)
 

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Just some finger banging is enough.. Most bottoms keep their ass loose with dildo or butt plug play during the week so their ass is basically ready to go.. Mine is anyway.. But of course, if they only use little toys then they'll definitely never be ready for a huge, thick cock..

You just have to use a finger then two at first and then you try your big cock.. If it fits then great.. If not then try 3 fingers or it's all over.. ha!
 

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Not too long! If I’m very in the mood as well, my hole opens up completely :)
A bit of fingering before and just a little patience when entering (if the cock is 9” and thick) is good